I had this one relationship that ended a year ago.
She was my everything. I did all the romantic things that would make Romeo look like a toddler. I placed her on a trone and respected loved and charised her apropriately.
I am not a bad looking guy because after the brake up I strated dating again and was not lonely at all. The reason she gave me was that she didn't love me so I respected it and went on.
She moved in with another bloke and it looks like he properly beated her. She is back in town now and I am so convused because everytime I see her I get very very nervous and tremble from all the adrenaline.
I am currently in a relationship and it is going great. We make each other laugh we are intimate ang all is going just great.
But I know that we don't have so much passion as me and my previous girlfriend.
Both are pretty long relationships and I mean in years.
Please give your input.
2006-09-19 00:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by alwyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If ur ex didn't love u then cos she had another guy that she fell for and after serve beating decides that u're better,i'll say she got u on the NEWS LINE. Passions burns out but friendship have away of holding two hearts together when passion is gone.Ur present girl makes u laugh and u're happy try to inject passion into it and u'll be having a relationship of a life time.But u wear the shoe and knows how it pinches.
God luck and may u pick the best and the one that u'll always look back to the moment u met and Bless God for that day and for making the right decision.
2006-09-19 00:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened in the past is just that, in the past. You can't justify your lack of passion with the current relationship based on your past relationship, let alone compare. That is quite disrespectful for your gf. What you should do is start looking ways you could spice up the passion in the current relationship and stop looking back. Your ex is a big girl and can look after herself. You and your ex have a history and you will continue to be nervous around each other till time will tell... You will get over your ex and love your gf more!!!
2006-09-19 00:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really confusing,but I think although u love the first girl more or u have passion for her as u said,but dont forget that she told u previously that she doesnt love u ,and on the other hand u have a stable relashionship that is going great, so I guess u should stick to it and go on with ur life ,try to forget the first girl .
2006-09-19 00:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know why the first relationship ended...shes gone and youre with someone else...would the other one stay with you if you went back or did she leave you? think carefully If you love this one you may want to stay where you are if shes a sure thing and loves you...After 18 mos men should commit.
Im the ultimate romantic If your love is strong for the first one you could call her to feel her out when this one isnt around..its up to you Just think carefully...if you dont trust the 1st one stay where you are Feelings are cool but what about trust?? good luck
2006-09-19 00:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u think if u went back to the old girl u would be hurting the new one. i know they say old shoes fit better than new ones but think bout it new shoes would definitely get to be old if not thrown away and would definitely fit better than other old ones and with time u wont have need for the then old shoe. if u go back to the old girl, she will definitely dump u again, take my words for it. i think u should direct all ur attention and strength to ur new relationship.remember the old one dumped u and remember u never know what u have till u loose i guess the old girl is feeling that way and have at the back of ur mind that if u leave this new girl, she might not be there when u want her back.so be wise
2006-09-19 00:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by unique m's queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the lady who is presently in your life. Once a person dumps you it's never the same. She'd probably just use you until the next guy come along and then dump you again.
Try putting as much into this relationship as you did in your last. She deserves your all!
2006-09-19 00:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what is right in your heart, but at the same time think about it, this girl that came back in town did she come running straight to you? she is looking for protection not a boyfriend, that is what you need to ask yourself and consisder the possibility that she knows how well you will treat her and with someone that has been beaten, well they are fragile and want that kind of attention, your present girlfriend, does she know any of this? i think you should stick with her she has been there and loved you so do the same for her, it's not fair to just say oh my ex is back play time is over...no don't let your ex walk all over you. she will just take advantage of you. be careful and think about it before you make your decision. good luck to you!
2006-09-19 00:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the previous had already her share of love and respect and the thing that u r still have some feelings for her .there are two reasons one is she was ur first love and second i think u r feeling sorry for her.....
but from my point f veiw now u already have one in ur life and she has become ur partner in the time when u were lonely and now ur in very good terms........so my advise is forget about the past and dont worry ur previous will get another good boy friend .but for the previous one dont hurt ur present G/friend....as it will be very mean of u.....
2006-09-19 00:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the girl you're involved with now. The other one didn't love you. If she wants to come back to you it's not because she's in love, but rather she is alone. She made her choices.
2006-09-19 00:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart. because if today you do any compromise you will regret it your whole life .I respect your feelings but just have doubt that if she can leave you once without thinking about your emotions can't she do it again.
2006-09-19 00:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋