I met a girl four months ago and we hung out for a while. But what she tells me is that she have never been kissed and never had sex. I found it hard to believe because she don't look like one.
How could I know if she is not telling the truth? she is 20.
2006-09-18 22:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did she put out on the first date?
then she probabaly wasnt
2006-09-18 23:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rare that there are women at that age out there still virgins. I mean a lot are not virgins, but it's likely true. Just because she doesn't look like one doesn't mean it's not true. She might be telling you the truth -- It could be from her morals, the beliefs, or the religious stuff, maybe even from the way she was raised. I'd suggest get to know her better (just don't jump in the bed fast). Give it more time to get to know her better, and see if anything has changed i.e. the story (what she has told you).
2006-09-19 06:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suppose it was the other way around, and she questioned your ability to tell the truth. Do you think you would want to be with someone who didn't trust you?
If you cannot believe her, ask her friends. Or her family.
You might actually lose more than you gain. So think long and hard about what is at stake here.
2006-09-19 06:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always give people the benefit of the doubt. It's innocent unless proven guilty.
Don't let the seed of doubt grow and affect the progress of this relationship if you really like her.
If you really feel uncomfortable about it, you can try asking around mutual friends or trap her with innocuous questions about sex. But that's just underhanded, so I hope you won't!
2006-09-19 06:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by syrope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not that hard to figure out!... you can try to kiss her, if she react rapidly and behave somehow that it shows she is ready to have a sex with you, be sure that she is a lier... cause it's hard to belive that a 20 year old girl has never been kissed! you know, if she had told you that she just never had a sex, it would be easier to belive, cause sex is a diffrent matter, but kissing... hard to belive!
2006-09-19 06:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she maybe telling you the truth at 20 some never had good luck to the both of you
2006-09-19 06:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell that's a hard one!! I know that there is allot of people out there that's still virgins in all areas! Hell I only lost my virginity when I was 19. So I think you should believe her. "Don't judge the book by its cover" ever heard of that!!
2006-09-19 06:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her to a doctor for a medical check up..and ask the doctor to produce certificates of confirmation of her virginity..then u will know without have to make sex with her first..
2006-09-19 06:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by atokboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try check his genital u will know 30 and 20
2006-09-19 06:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and hav sex with her. u come to know d truth
2006-09-19 06:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋