I don’t think I’ll be here long because I’m planning to go back to college. I’m generally a very social person, and I love hanging with friends. But I don’t know what’s up with me lately, I’ve pretty much gone into hiding. I really haven’t seen many interesting looking people and I know I should try and get out and at least TRY to meet people (wow that was repetitive but I’m tired and don’t care haha). It’s like I just don’t care..Like I can just live doing nothing with people for a while and yeah...which is crazy, being me..I always have to be doing something...anyway back to the point- should I make myself be a normal person and get off the phone with my friends (that’s what I do- talk on my cell to wonderful people I know :) ) And make myself meet people and stop being a depressed little loser? or just get past this time & not have to think of being around a bunch of rich little small town snobs? (where i'm living is a pretty wealthy area) can i hear myself? I think i'm depressed :)
2006-09-18 22:47:28 · 4 answers · asked by ... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sure that your friends are wonderful, and you should maintain those relationships.
But it seems to me that you have passed a lot of judgments about this small town that you only recently moved into.
Maybe the people don't "look" interesting, but that doesn't mean that they aren't. Small towns seem to contain tons of interesting and quirky people, and people are usually more interesting than their facades suggest.
You also mentioned "rich little small town snobs"- every small town has a mix of people unless you are living in a gated community. If the people of your "usual" type of crowd don't suit you, look to a different demographic.
I think that you're sad and discouraged, but I;m sure if you look a little harder, you'll find something to appreciate in your small town. Good luck!
2006-09-18 23:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your behaviour is the result of your feeling that you are only going to be in this place for a short while, and you don't want to be rejected by those you try to befriend, thinking they may be snobs.
You have to change your mindset and start behaving your usual self!
What's wrong with making friends even though you may just be passing by? Many excellent friendships have developed, even when separated by distance. You assume that rich people will be snobs. There are snobs everywhere you go, not only in rich locations. However, are you going to allow them to rule your life?
You run your own life. Don't feel miserable because of the behaviour and character of others.
2006-09-18 23:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been where your at, and from my own experience I had to go out and force myself to meet others, It was slow going and uncomfortable at first, but almost a year later and now I have new friends who i consider family almost. Don't loose touch with your old friends just make some room, and time to go out and do things you enjoy and meet others with common interests. Best of luck to you, it will get better!
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