Im a nice bloke and try to treat my women aswell as i can!
Should i turn into a bastard?
2006-09-18 22:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by browntbath 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awe honey, I live by the rule treat people the way you would like to be treated,
if women dont like you for being you, well your better off without them, be a nice guy, they dont always finish last x
2006-09-18 22:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no don't turn into a *******.
I was sick of meeting blokes that treated me like rubbish and with dis-respect. All i seemed to attract was blokes who wanted to use me. I was giving up hope of finding someone nice as i thought all men were the same....and now i've found a wonderful guy who is kind and generous and everything i've ever wanted.
All i'm saying is not everyone is the same....sure there are some slappers out there who want to treat blokes like rubbish and hurt them...but there are some kind girls out there too.. just like there are kind men and men who are total ******** .(maybe you are looking in the wrong place)...and trust me a kind man is very hard to find....they are going to figure that out for themselves and realise that!
You should never change yourself to please others....there is a girl out there for you but you won't find her if you pretend to be a nasty person, which you aren't.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 22:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Liz S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and be bastard!!! Pleeeease!! I have been out with a long string of bastards because I always liked the bad boys. I always thought that "nice guys" would be no fun and not as good in bed. They have all cheated on me, treated me like dirt and broken my heart! I am now seeing a "nice guy" and he is wonderful! He has definately helped changed me taste in men! All the girls that go for players will eventually realise that they need a nice guy like you. It just takes time. Good luck xx
2006-09-19 03:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel hurt, you are hurting yourself. Take a look at the mirror and be truthful to yourself. Ask yourself why are you hurt? Did you make the wrong decision? Were you too hasty? Did you jump into the wrong relationship without assessing the other person closely first? Were you too naive?
Do not feel hurt. Just go on with your life. Many things happen to us because we are a part of the cause. We are equiped with a brain that will enable us to learn from our experiences. Those who are smarter will be able to learn from other people's experiences. These people are able to avoid the mistakes made by others! Can you do the same?
2006-09-18 22:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the only option?! We all get hurt at various stages in life by various people and situations.... Life can be a ***** at times but hey we are alive and there are happy times so make the most of it. And don't turn into a bastar, if we all did that everytime we got hurt the world would be a truly horrible place!
2006-09-18 22:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a bastard, continue being nice, their are good girls out there, just as there are good blokes. d right girl will come ur way
2006-09-18 22:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard but you are moreso looking for the signs the next time around. Be aware but dont let it take over your life.. Get over whatever or whoever hurt you and move on.. Put this one down to experience
2006-09-18 22:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! There is no shortage of Bastards, or *****'S for that matter, don't let the ones you meet turn you into something that you aren't love em and pray for them, move on!
2006-09-18 22:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bastard doesn't work always be nice if your naturally nice and not just putting it on you will meet your match,
2006-09-18 22:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that we can't just let the hurt someone left in us make us to hurt someone else with a good heart.You should continue loving,though you might get hurt,but you feel good about it instead of hurting someone and regretting it for the rest of your life.
2006-09-18 23:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by tonygraminia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋