I love him and i tought that he feels the same...We*ve been together for a while and than the crush happened.He was with other girl.And then, after a whole year i went from Montenegro to Slovenia to study the IB programme and he was like very sad, and wantet to say goodbuy to me...But I keep on trying to forget him...HOW? And how his love stopped, if there was any love at alll....?
2006-09-18 22:17:46 · 7 answers · asked by deadly cute from montenegro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time and distance does that to a relationship. It's life. Find someone new to focus upon.
2006-09-18 22:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love will die,as everything else in the world.we humans are at constant change.this happens because we are natural learners.we like to discover ,learn enjoy and move on to the next lesson.once the once the enjoyment given by the surprise source ends,meaning about love:one of the two will go for something new,and this is very natural as we are always looking for new experiences and knowledge.it all starts when we enjoy the new experiences with a new person,we learn from them,we learn how they are,we enjoy them physically and emotionally,they make us feel good for a certain period...and we feel as we are conected forever by love,and that's exacly what keeps them together while they are at it,but by no means they truly are,is just a feeling that fades.sometimes it last longer and sometimes is shorter depending on how much you like from each other,the way each of you gives love,the time you actually spend together,what you actually do when you are,everything gives a signal to the other person to make them think wether they should or not be with you.also very importantly,the other people around that could be acroos your way,if your partner think they could be better it will kill the love you have built and go for it...that's right.the powerful emotion of attachment and enjoyment it's not eternal and can be killed,switched to someone else,simply fade away or forgotten.nothing permanetnly rules it and nothing surely can brake it.it will just go when it has to.and for every single one there's no a single particular explanation for it to die,it ends becase of many things that can't be globaly defined but it does always,it's the human destiny even if they die conciously loving the other,that doesn't men that never in future it wasn't going to be happen.it just happens at different times for everyone but it will surely be there to be finished as is it just has to,like everything else.even the universe and life will come to and end,it just that sometimes it takes a lot of time and sometimes is really short.that's all basically is the same.what was born will die.
2006-09-19 05:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each one of us creates a love story for ourselves. These stories are created unconsciously and usually at a fairly young age. When we get older, our relationships are dictated by the kind of stories we have created, often causing difficulty when our partner's stories are incompatible with our own.
Sometimes the seemingly perfect couple is unable to stay together and ends up separating, not even sure themselves why it happened. The love is there, but both partners are acting out different unconscious love dramas. There is no blame...no right or wrong...just an acknowledgment that you are not suited for each other, but that someone else is.
You can have the most passionate actors in the world on set...but if they are not reading the same script the movie will flop. You seem like a lovely person...stay friends with your BF and find that special person that is truly with you. Best to you!
2006-09-19 05:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE NEVER DIES. The problem sometimes is that we don't always love at the same time. Being in love and having love for some one is not the same thing. The sad thing is we may not be there at the same time. Why waste time on forgetting? Remember, smile and be happy that you share time with him. Remain in contact with him, but if he doesn't feel as you do, know that and excepted It will also help you make a decision if you can remain friends.
2006-09-19 05:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real thing doesn't die. It goes into hibernation when we neglect or choose to set it aside for personal reasons. Seems like things were good for awhile but you fell apart because of neglect or you are both just not compatible. But don't worry too much. This could be a blessing in disguise with new opportunites and experiences that life is offering you. Seize the moment. And don't forget to smile
2006-09-19 05:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me...love never dies...maybe he really loved you...did you gave him the opportunity to even talk about the other girl? Or did he have the chance to say goodbye? I think he like you...not love you...
2006-09-19 05:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by xanseviera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love never dies only the intensity comes down.with proper nurturing it rises like phoenix
2006-09-19 05:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋