And when you have been hurt in the past and and are afraid of love and commitment
2006-09-18 21:57:25 · 16 answers · asked by Sexy Susie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try the church, grocery store or auto parts store!
2006-09-18 22:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how to say this but i guess the best way is to not consciously look for one and just let it happen naturally. what i'm saying is, try doing something you enjoy like maybe go into sports, join a community group, do volunteer work if you like that sort of thing, whatever. just be out there. you can also go to clubs or bars, just choose the ones with a good crowd. take your girl friends and enjoy some bonding time together. i'm sure pretty soon you'll meet someone you like. good luck!
2006-09-19 05:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by tobermory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no espesific answer because casuality is not a law and fate is just the random result of the present and choice.so it in fact is none and everywhere,and even like that there's no guarantee.the future is just that the result of people choices in the past,nothing rules that,so you might or might not,but trying with a little counciousnes will increase your chances a lot.and is very likely that you will find something that you will settle for,not your best but we humans never are at our complete best because it is impossible,that perfect person for you could live in australia and your ways will never cross.so you see all you can do is try and as you say you are very likely to find,at least goodso i would suggest overcome the fantasy wall and actually get your *** out just put yourself out to places that you like going,to places that you would like to go,to places that other people like to go,places that you would never go,and this is very important be sure to try to go to places that people who you would like to be with go,analize all that and you would get an idea where to go where people will understand you.but don't under estimate the power of randomness,it is very possible that you might find a good person to settle to at a bar.sometimes they were not into the bar stuff too,and they showed up anyways.see the point good luck,you will need it.as we all do.
2006-09-19 05:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say that but have a name and a picture like that?? hey yea if meeting people is hard try all the places listed... if not try towns... it doesnt have to be night to be in town to meet people lol talk to someone random even if not directly lol... all good eh plenty of people... if u dnt wanna talk many men will have the balls to make the first move ok...
Lol I know what u mean bout the pain thing but hey we'll get over it... no problem...
2006-09-19 05:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to England, we are fantastic!
Hurt in the past yes, afraid of commitment, for a while at least after
2006-09-19 05:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the past dear, I was also in the same situation but I am now in love with another guy. All what is needed for you is just forgetting that you were hurt and forge ahead. Pray to God that should give U a FAITHFUL GUY like mine , dont go to search for them/him in bars or going to church with that reason, be what you are and start praying, he will really come on your way.
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 05:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ndaona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are ya? If you are between 18 and 24(my current age), you can give me email. Are you uni school student? Find one in your class!
2006-09-19 05:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Shengjie Su 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm try the church and the interent, but its gonna be hard if you are too shy, you will miss a lot of opportunities for nice guys.
And I believe there are nice guys in bars too.
2006-09-19 05:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by ImaCandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
church singles groups are growing in popularity
2006-09-19 05:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by marksmithdejected 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is definitely a good place!!!
2006-09-19 04:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋