I must admit that as a police officer for 20 years now I have done thousands of field searches on suspects which included patting down suspects buttocks and genital areas.
I find myself fantasizing about all these men and I find myself cruising in the squad car looking for young attractive male suspects to pat search.
I never considered myself gay, but after years of feeling men down I think I have found myself.
I can't even have normal sex with my wife anymore. I see myself going out to Gay Bars and having unprotected sex with multiple males.
I was wondering if any other fellow officers share my same issues out there.
Am I wrong for sexually gratifying myself by searching suspects in a sexual manner?
What should I do. I can no longer control myself.
2006-09-18 21:46:59 · 27 answers · asked by DeputySheriff 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Do you have kids? do you love your wife? Then go get professional help from a psychologist( a good one not some liberal wack job) before you ruin your life and the lives of the people you love. Giving in to sick thoughts would only make you weak and make you hate yourself. Get help before it's to late.
2006-09-20 09:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by great dane fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pulling people over for that is big time wrong! Sexual suit just waiting to happen! If u r gay I'd divorce the wife, 20 yrs is a long time though! Lots of memories! I am sure u can find a partner (guy) who would be happy to be with you and do some role playing together! This way u dont have to pull these people over to do that! I would seek advice from a professional see what they say!
But u really need to stop pulling people over for that before u end up in jail for it!
2006-09-19 08:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by woohooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep thinking like this and your 20 years will go up in smoke. Pension and all. It's only a matter of time before you screw up and get hung out to dry.
Better go see the department sanctioned counselors and get this squared away. Unless of course you'd prefer to be unemployed and standing in Federal Court dealing with a civil rights violation.
2006-09-20 08:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there are no Gay Police Officers.
Second an Officer never utters the words
"I can no longer control myself."
3 Strikes Your Out.
2006-09-19 06:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by BeloyeMore 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit your job. What you are doing is called sexual harassment, and its illegal. If you get caught up you are not only going to get you into trouble, but also your precinct will come under fire and your supervising officer will be severely chastized (Surely you know this?)
I can assure you if you gave me the slightest impression that you were feeling my crotch the wrong way, I would most certainly knock you unconcious and take the assault charge. I am not homophobic, btw, I have many gay homies and homegirls.
2006-09-27 04:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for all the cops out there. How come you all aren't on the roads when there is a person that is going over the speed limit and how come you guys don't watch for those who run the stop lights and weave in and out of traffic? Thanks but there should be a lot of cops out there patrolling the streets. Bye!!!
2006-09-25 14:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong? Got tired of posting your stupid rants as "freedom_fighter"? We know that your "freedom_patriot" account got cancelled, so you had to reinvent yourself to continue spouting your drivel. It's really pathetic that you have absolutely nothing better to do than sit at your keyboard all day thinking of ways to insult the police.
For those of you who don't know, this guy has admitted in previous posts (under different names) to being arrested. And he is obsessed with police doing strip searches, anal exams, and the police "propaganda machine", as he calls it. It's a sad sight to see a life wasted. Of course, I can't find myself feeling any pity for someone who wastes it of their own choice.
2006-09-19 15:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that your posting isn't facetious, you are going to have to quit police work or move to San Francisco, where they have expertise in managing gay police officers.
That's the reality of the factal situation set out.
2006-09-19 04:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the honorable thing to both your family and the department resign your position seek counseling the alternative is that someday you will meet someone that will report you or be from other enforcement agency that will arrest you why destroy both your family and the honorable profession you have chosen leaving back eyes on the good reputation of many others
2006-09-19 05:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are really a COP, get help.
You can be attracted to the opposite sex without using your authority to get your jollys off.
2006-09-26 22:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋