m a muslim girl of 19yrs going out wid a guy from last 4months.weneva v met he neva used 2 touch me also b4.den he slowly started holding hand n stuff like dat.ysterday he did more dan dat.he touchd some places i didnt think of. i told him v can do all dis after marraige. im feeling guilty about it..does dis mean dat he has no respect 4 me so he touchd n tried 2 smooch me?
plz guys let me knw y guys do like dis? do dey do it wid girls wid whom dey r doing timepass? or evn wid whom dey r serious dey do?
2006-09-18 20:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly the case u have narrated has nothing to do with your religion and Secondly u are an adult and u are going out with this boy on your own accord.
At the age in which u and your boyfriend are it is a natural act of exploring, holding hands, then kissing, then feeling and finally culminating to sex depending entirely on the willingness of the girl.
It is now entirely dependent on U and U alone how far u can permit him to go or u want to go, remember u are playing with fire because at times one thing leads to another and U may even loose control of yourself and things might go beyond what u wanted.
So draw a line and U can restrict him at any stage u want and if the boy forces his will u can always tell him to stop or walk out on him.
2006-09-18 21:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u hv to bcarefull ok..it is wrong as a muslim gal u must be strong to tell him tat is wrong n if he likes u he wont do tat to u n pls when u go outing go to open space where there's alot of people around.when it jus d 2 of u theres always d 3rd tat is SATAN remember u will be trap .so tell him if he really want to be ur friend he hv to behave OK darling take care of ur pride.
2006-09-19 04:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 72 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all.Nice english usage. No he doesn't care for you. If he does he wouldn't try to take away your dignity away from you. He is NOT inlove with you he just wants to have sex with you and then get another girl to have sex with him and dump you.
2006-09-19 03:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by TheWillBe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen many guys r not lik me dere 1st aim is to get laid
be carefull
best of luck
2006-09-19 03:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your choice if you like the touching or not.
2006-09-19 03:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please use spell check next time. I can't even read this without getting a headache.
2006-09-19 03:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U R A LOSER, DONT U HAVE SELFRESPECT!!!, IF U WANNA HAVE SEX WITH HIM GO FOR IT,,,, ANY WAY,, HE SEEMS TO B A <>........ SO TAKE ADVANTAGE......
2006-09-19 03:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by babyyocca 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋