2006-09-18 19:35:20 · 27 answers · asked by dpegra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Big red flag blowing in the wind!! It's always best to let someone know who you will be with on a date, especially a first date. Lots of wierdos out there.!
2006-09-18 19:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think so, it depends would this be the first time you met him? If you'd had a bit of a conversation first & then asked, I think it would be wierd... You could say my name is "Penny Lane" what's yours? I don't see why he would get defensive, unless he's I dono, gosh, maybe he's scared you're going to do a police check, or google him, & figure out he's creepy... It would make me automatically think, Creeeeepy. So yes, red flag.
2006-09-19 02:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the biggest red flag. Run the other way and don't look back. He is probably married with 10 kids. LOL
2006-09-19 02:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be to me. Don't you normaly introduce yourself w/ first and last names? You are not out of line by asking his full name and if he is touchy about it,I would say someone is not only waving a red flag but they have a bull horn behind you yelling run run run.
2006-09-19 02:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask but not mean - tell hem yours last name and ask for his. Red flag could be if you ask him about his prefer color of underwear on a date.
2006-09-19 02:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. I guess some people are by nature secretive in the beginning of a relationship. It doesnt mean they are hiding something, but shows they wanna preserve their identity for sometime till they can fully trust you. Not everyone can trust others at the drop of a hat, some take longer than others and your guy may be one of them.
2006-09-19 02:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Absolutely. He shouldn't have anything to hide if he wants to spend time with you. This could mean he's married, or has a problem with the law. Don't take chances with someone that you don't even know. If he does't seem to be truthful or honest, and seems shady, walk away!
2006-09-19 02:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider it a BIG RED FLAG!
2006-09-19 02:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by lg traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! Do not go out with this guy. A potential date should be comfortable in giving you his name, where he works and who his friends are.
Tell him you have to wash your hair that night instead.
2006-09-19 02:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be, unless he's self concious cause it's weird. To me that would be a red flag
2006-09-19 02:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋