well, I have ex who is engaged coz he was forced by his parents. he says he still luvs me n i luv him too...what do u think shud i believe him and chat to him as a freind or i shud say that he hurt me alot so why shud i chat wid him
2006-09-18 19:30:13 · 14 answers · asked by sweeety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u dont treat as friend as it is unfair
2006-09-18 19:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love with each other, I really don't think it's a good idea, especially now that he's engaged, it's just going to bring up all the hurt that you've gotten beyond, I really think... Then you may end up all confused... Could you really go to being friends with him, could you handle the thought of him with someone else, marrying someone else? Or do you still want him back? It hurts but, I think, if my parents wanted me to marry someone, & I loved someone else, I'd say no, & run away or something..
If you do want him back, I think he-tox is the best way to get beyond an ex. They say it takes 1/2 as long as a relationship lasted to get over them, maybe it's more or less. Stay away, no contact, save yourself the heartache, untill you're well & truly over him, especially if he's caused you so much pain, it's not fair to put yourself through more.. Goodluck hun
2006-09-19 02:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would move on because he is gonna keep talking to you (because he's confused/scared) while he and his fiance are getting closer. One day he's gonna see himself and you are not gonna hear from him anymore. You are gonna be so hurt. Look at it this way, he's an adult. No matter how much his family is forcing him to marry this girl, if he loves and cares about you and wanted to be with you so much........he would have said no. So let him go. Tell him as much as we still care for each other, that chapter of our life is now over.
2006-09-19 02:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your ex is now engaged, his love to you is now just lust so better maintain a distance. You should not have any sort of relationship with him now. Any further link with your ex will now spoil many lives. World is full of lovely people so forget him as he did and look for another nice guy.
2006-09-19 03:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a nut.
The world is big and you have got a long way to go.
If somebody has cheated (Forget the hard luck story that fellow says) ,it is not an end of the world.
Forget him and get going,the world is not taht bad. you find another,all the Best.
Next time if he starts something--tell Bye
2006-09-19 02:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by mannan_malar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it, it sounds like he wants his cake and ice cream too. I would keep my distance he might just stream you along and when he is finished throw you to the side. You can find someone else that will love you and do anything for you, if he truely loves you he would be with you know matter what his parents say.
2006-09-19 02:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you chat with him in future - that will be the Worst thing you are doing in your life...his life...other girls life....
Therefore, keep away from him...just forget him, as he was only a friend to you...now - since he has been engaged, he can't do anything for you...or you can't do anything for him...
My best advise to you as my own sister, friend...plz keep away yourself...You can get a better life with somebody else... be happy.
2006-09-19 04:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by SA-bic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is wise coz in the end things may turn out sour and you will end up hurting lot many people.
2006-09-19 02:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably missing what he doesn't have anymore, so if you feel that you can have a conversation without getting heavy then cool, but you don't wanna find yourself getting in the way of his relationship with new chick.
2006-09-19 03:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after loving someone it becomes difficult to accept him just as a friend....so i would advice u not to continue talking to him as it would destroy three lives-urs,ur ex-bf's and his wife....
i hope u dnt want that to happen....
i know its very difficult to come out of it coz even i'm going thru that stage.....
but its wise to leave him wid his present rather than haunting him wid his past......
i hope u understand and hope this advice helps u....
take care sweety...!!!
2006-09-19 04:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by riya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a universal problem of boyz....never trust them...he is just fooling u
2006-09-19 06:10:31 · answer #11 · answered by shakiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋