Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and both still have strong emotions for each other. He just said we are both living seperate lives and it was too hard for him. He calls me about every two weeks and we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I finally called him back after he called three days in a row.. he told me the same old thing..want to see how ur doing etc. IF thats all he wanted why did he call three days in a row? GUYS..if he really wanted me back wouldnt he say so ? he is e
2006-09-18 19:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just an indecisive possesive freak. Dump him.
Cheers.
2006-09-18 19:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not sure yet about where he wants the relationship to go. He enjoys talking to you...which is a huge plus. He might just be lonely and needs you for comfort, until the next best thing comes along.
Keep ignoring his calls for a few weeks. Be unavailable...give him space to fall for you even more. The more unavailable you are to him the more he will wonder and think about you.... Then see what happens..
What do you do when someone doesn't return your call? You think about that person more.... It's weird, but it's true.
2006-09-19 03:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Darla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the comfort of having you around until he finds someone else. Stop holding yourself back from the good guy out there waiting to love you. Stop answering the calls, and feeling obliged to return them ... its called a break up because it is broken. Its hard to FIX something that is broken, it will always have cracks. Can you deal with cracks for the rest of your life. REMEMBER why you broke up in the first place.
2006-09-19 02:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you back, maybe you do to.
Why are you not moving forward?
May he is scared what you are going to say if he tells you he would like you to be more that friends again.
2006-09-19 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is desperate!!
Leave him you will break up with him even after you get back with him
go on with your life
2006-09-19 02:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer him anymore. He is using you. Been the and done that. It isn't pretty and it hurts bad. Keep ignoring him.
2006-09-19 02:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋