2006-09-18 19:24:29 · 27 answers · asked by freedom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you, just curious because I'd like to know how serious the relationship is. Have you ever known your friend to be spiteful? Likewise, have you ever heard of your boyfriend doing anything like this before? Or it could have been a misunderstanding. But if your friend has been a true friend, I'd trust her over him. Guys come and go, until you find the right one to marry. A true friend is a precious thing. And if this friend risked you getting mad at her to tell you what your boyfriend did, I'd believe her.
2006-09-18 19:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're torn and hurt you don't trust them both. If you really did trust them both it's more likely that your Boyfriend would know if he came onto your friend. It's much easier to be confused about someone's intentions than to cheat on someone and not notices it. I'd be very sure about proof before you take one side or the other.
2006-09-19 02:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend came on to her and your so-called bestfriend wants to break the both of you up. What I would do is tell your boyfriend you think it's time to give him a little space. You will find out just how quick the so-called friend rushes to the rescue. I don't trust either one and the only way to be sure is to watch the both of them when they are together.
2006-09-19 02:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber this. When someone has a negative message for you, ask what they are gaining from bringing you this message? What does your best friend get from bringing you such bad, hurtful news? What would he get if he tried to pick up on her? What would be the chances she would tell him? Personally its been my experience that very few men are willing to take a chance on hitting on thier girls friends much less best friend unless she did something to let him know it was safe for him to approach. There are so many other women out there. would you take a shot in the dark and hit on your mans best friend? Unless he did something to let you know it was cool to approach. Maybe your best friend flirted a little, in a harmless way and didnt think it would get the reaction it got? Women tend to be very competitive. And maybe he was just being a dumb guy who was not thinking when he took the bait. He may not even have followed through. He may have been the fish that bit the hook and is now squirming and is afraid to say yes I flirted back. But she opened the door. Guys are terrified we will disapprove of thier bad behavior. And the last thing they want is to be in the middle of a cat fight. So they figure its best to just deny any and all of what shes accusing me of. Cut them both some slack. Nothing happened. Keep an eye on your best friend and see if she does kind of flirt with guys a little more when youre around. Or if she puts more into the way she looks when she knows your man will be around. Just keep your eyes open. I think theyre both a little guilty. In fact I think they may have gone a little furteh than flirting. Theres a reason they have such conflicting stories. That happened to me and turns out they slept together and in an effort to cover her tracks she came up with him trying to pick up on her alibi in case he confessed to me. Shocked me!
2006-09-19 02:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sucks. I have had that happen before but it was my Friend that came onto my girlfriend. I would not recommend fighting someone that is a foot taller than you and has a bot 50 pounds on you. But my girlfriend at the time did take care of me and i got a lot of attention so it was not that bad.
everything that happens is meant to happen so go with the one you have been close to the longest. That would probably be your Friend and if he did then maybe he will change and you will get back together. and if he didn't then you will find out in time. But if your not meant to be together then what does it mater
2006-09-19 02:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan Poole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might have just miss read hes intentions. But to be sure. It would not hurt to confront them both together so you only get one answer. It just might turn in to a joke the three of you will share for a long time, or not.
Do it for your self, and your own peace of mind.
Two sides to every story.
2006-09-19 02:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by CINDY W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut or call them together & put the cards on the table. If they both still deny it then teach them each a lesson in your own way to show them that you are upset.
2006-09-19 02:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known each of them? If she is your best friend, you know what she's done in the past. Is she a boyfriend stealer...a liar?? Ask yourself what her motive could be to even tell you this. A lot of factors play into this. Good Luck!!
2006-09-19 02:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever trust anyone!!
She might be right, But you have to know who is telling the truth.
Just check if she is into him or not. or vice versa
keep them apart. If you think he is the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with and you can loose a freind for him then you have to trust what you feel. Think with your braind and not the heart
2006-09-19 02:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST YOUR BESTFRIEND.trust me.i know a friend who got the same exact problem! at the end, well..the guy was the one who came to my friends best friend..guys will do ANYTHING to make u believe his story just because he loves u and he doesnt want to loose u. if u want answers, go n ask your boyfriend face to face.and look straight into his eyes. if his trying to avoid your gaze,he might b lying. and make him swear on his grandmothers grave that he didnt come on your best friend!!!!!! :)
2006-09-19 02:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋