My boyfriend has two internet girls that he wont stop talking to even after he met me. His entire life is the internet and I was okay with that but I don't like him talking to these girls for a reason. They have secrets and more in common with him than I do. One of the girls I HATE him talking to. Reasons are because he met her in real life WHILE WE WERE TOGETHER. Stayed the night with her and turned off his cell phone when I tried to call at 3am to see if he was O.K. That happened two nights in a row. The second reason is because one night he was telling me he loved me but said her name instead of mine. I was ok with him meeting her because I trusted him not to do anything stupid and to actually COME HOME the same night and not stay over. Yes, I am jealous and why shouldn't I be? He thinks that him being drunk is a good reason for his actions and I believe he's full of ****. Is it wrong for me to want him to stop talking to these two girls?
2006-09-18 19:24:19 · 16 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forgot to mention that he was reading this entire question and all of the answers and talking **** on everything that was said that wasn't in HIS favor. I've asked him to stop several times but he wont and even claimed that if I made him stop he'd do it even more behind my back. When I tell him that he's hiding too much from me he denies it but still wont stop talking to them or let me read his myspace messeges or anything when he reads all of mine.
2006-09-18 19:51:47 · update #1
No it's not wrong to want him to stop. If I were you I would talk to him again about it and be serious. If he does not change then you have to make a decision weather to be with him or not. Because if he continues you will be hurting yourself. You should look up on yahoo emotional cheating and you will find what he is doing. Because if he is sharing his personal life with these girls then he is cheating on you emotionally. And it sounds like he could be cheating on the physical as well. He should be sharing his emotions with you he does not need to seek anywhere else. Just talk and make a decision. Good Luck.
2006-09-18 19:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old saying "Once a cheater always a cheater" My advice, move on, run if you have to. Why should you change for him???? What are you getting out of this??? Where do you see this relationship 2 years from now. You are worth more then that, I would be pissed if my man was on the phone 24/7 and not with me. I mean he can have friends, who doesn't but late at night, that is a cheater and he wants to have the best of both worlds... don't give him that satisfaction. Good Luck and remember your body is a temple and no man should ran all over it!!!
2016-03-27 08:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you try to block him from other people you basically want to be the only option, it's better to know he is with you, because he chose to and not because he was forced to. Let him do his thing and don't even ask, if the guy wants to cheat he will, and he will be less careful if you are not like a 24/7 cop, sooner or later you'll find out !!!
2006-09-18 19:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way you are so right to feel this way. I say that if you want to be happy that you should find someone who will be more understanding to your feelings. Remember your a princess and if he is a toad, kick him of the lilly pad and jump back in the water to catch another fish in the sea. You deserve better, say it with me... you deserve better. If you feel that you are being to insecure about this it would be wise to see a therapist to help with selfesteem issuse. I have been there. Once your self esteem is up you will realise that he is a jurk and you will be confident enought to find someone more suiting to your way of thinking. Hope I help. Good luck.
2006-09-18 19:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Don't you have self-respect? Its so obvious he's playing you! I just don't understand girls like you that like to be treated like s**t! If you love yourself leave him because he's never gonna change! Look for another guy that won't play you and will love you back the same way! You deserve it. Good Luck!
2006-09-18 19:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If It bother you really, Tell him to stop, because you have reason very clear that those girls can be dangerous for your relationship!!!
Do it but be nice and don't be rude Just explain that it bothers you a lot.
If he loves you, he will understand if not girl!!! are many good guys around the world!!!
Good luck !!!
Best wishes.
2006-09-18 19:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by CHICA24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about these girls, and take a good hard look at YOU. WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?
True Love ?
It isn't.
He loves you?
He lies.
He is clearly disrespectful of you. The sooner you get your butt out of this unhealthy relationship the better.
STOP ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE WALKED ALL OVER.
2006-09-18 19:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only hope that he is not already physically cheating on you. It is absolutely okay for you to want him to stop talking to these girls. It isn't like he is just friends with them and if they were "just friends" then maybe he introduce you. But basically him just chatting with the girls, is him emotionally cheating on you. And you deserve better.
2006-09-18 19:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by emely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sharing a guy with other girls. He knows you want to be the only one, but he doesn't care. You won't change that. You girls are so into these slick player types, and don't realize that you are setting yourselves up to get burned.
2006-09-18 19:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is good for the goose is good 4 the gandor, Get your own internet boyfriends. But be sure to use safe sex esp. with him !!
2006-09-18 19:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋