i have been with my bofriend for nearly 2 yaers but i have recently find someone esle who i am really into i think am falling in live with i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but this new guy know how to treat me he is so nice i forgot wat is was like to be v treated like a princess wat should i do
2006-09-18 18:34:41 · 9 answers · asked by concerned tennager 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not rocket science. You want to dump the current b/f because you feel he doesn't treat you like a lady. Have you told him? Many guys today do not know how to treat a lady like a lady because. Many ladies do not know how a lady is suppose to be treated, because society has scoured most of the division out of society. Gender neuter they want it. Except for the sex, which has become a commodity. Many times it is when the sex goes bad and there is nothing else to anchor the relationship on, that people want to flee a relationship. So, you been together for 2 years and he doesn't know how you want to be treated and you have not been able to tell him. Do you have any communication that doesn't involve thrusting hip action? Since you have no connection, and the lines of communication is dead. Before it get any messier. Cut it off. It is basically a sham of a relationship at this point anyhow. He maybe relieved to go find someone he wants to be with also. How do you know? After all this time, it seem there is still much you both have not taken to learn about each other.
2006-09-24 19:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take your boyfriend for granted. This new guy is only treating you like a princess because he wants to get with you. The new guy might not even last 2 years. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you need from him. If he doesn't try then it's time to part ways but don't blindside him.
2006-09-19 01:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by elong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to let go of ur current boyfriend just because u guys have so much in the past. it might be scared to start something new. what if it doesnt work out with the new guy? i think what u need to do is take a break with ur current boyfriend, be friends. date other people, and if u guys were meant to be u guys will end up back together. dating can really open ur guys, if ur stuck in a relationship then in time it will only get worse. talk to ur boyfriend, he might feel the same way-- follow ur heart. (dont leave the one you love for the one u like, cause in the end the one you like will leave u for the one they love)...! sorry but this one u have to decide
2006-09-19 01:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should let your current BF down easy. First you want to make sure your "crush" likes you back. Then go off of that.If he does I would go for it. If he don't well, if your liking other guys when you've been going out for 2 years with someone.It probably means your getting bored with your current BF. And it should be over anyway. But on the other hand, you could be madly in love with your current BF and you just don't know it yet! Do I hope I helped if not sorry. I tried.
2006-09-19 01:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sky Rolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something happened some years back in my life. I have a girl whom i love for 13 years & still loving her so much.She stood & still stand by me all these years despite me cheating on her when she found out that i was going out with a girl who was pretty, smart & loving. She was devastated when she found out the truth but she was kind enough to forgive me. Being with someone like for your case, has he mistreated you in any way, cheated you in any way.I want you to reflect on these, choosing a relationship is easy but you must be brave & kind to go on with it. Your guy may not have all the qualities you see in this new guy whom you have met & have blindly fall in love. Please, never judge a book by it's cover. Forgive me for saying this, what if all these kind actions of this new guy is all pure pretence, what then ? Are you going to run back to your old boy ? Will he accept you after that hurt you have caused him ? Ask yourself these questions. Not everyone in this world is forgiving, you can't have all the best in this world. Not everything is perfect and not everything is good. I want you to consider these facts. Please sister, in my opinion what i think you are doing now is "Cheating", no good dear. Would you accept the fact that ,if he has done that to you when you both were truly in love (Beginning Stage). Ask yourself? Will you have forgiven him ?
2006-09-19 02:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me what i would do is become bestfriends with the guy that you supposedly hav a crush on then see if there are any sparks or what you have in common with your personalities. If you find you have a lot in common with this guy then tell your boyfriend that you just wanna be friends or you just wanna put your relationship on hold for a while, then your not breaking his heart......hope this helps,
Good Luck
2006-09-19 01:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by DaNcEjUnKiE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did your b/f of two years treat you when you first met? maybe he treated you like a princess.remember the longer you know someone the more they get comfortable the less efort they will make. this is true for men and women.
2006-09-19 01:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u love more? always trust ur own heart. the guy who appeared in ur life now, is he worth it? he treats u well to get ur attention. give both a chance to proof themselves. give urself more time to find out which one is the one for u. U dont have to make a decision now, yah?
2006-09-19 01:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by AL75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to him
2006-09-19 01:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋