And want that person back?
I could kick myself.
2006-09-18 18:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never done it to anyone, but I had it done to me. I warned her three times that if she ruined our relationship and ended it, that it would be forever, and forever is a long time. That was ten years ago, and I'm not the kind of person who gets any satisfaction out of saying "I told you so", but.......I've lost track of the number of times she has left messages on my answering machine and put herself in my path, come around to where I work, and tried to get a rise out of me. I honestly think she always was convinced that she could have me back anytime she wanted me. She was wrong, and I think she is realizing how long forever is. You will have that same experience.
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2006-09-18 18:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg you have no idea. You never know at the time, but only later can you find out. Then once you find out, it's too late. Usually the person either has too much pride to take you back or has moved on with someone else. But then again there are situations where people have left and wish they left 10 years earlier because they are so much happy. Life just has tough lessons and a lot of chances.
2006-09-19 01:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the grass does always seem greener on the other side, doesn't it?
But all I can say is that I've been the 'dumpee' before in the situation you described, and when she wanted to get back together with me, I just couldn't bring myself to be with her again.
One word: paranoia.
If she did it to me before, she might do it again.
I know it sounds pretty negative, but you're better off finding another person similar to this person you just dumped. You don't want to be with someone who suspects you could do it again in the future.
2006-09-19 01:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by kreugerkorp1819 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, The only problem is once you get them back, you realize why you dumped them in the first place !!!!
2006-09-19 01:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by g_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it happens most times, but think about the reason u broke up with him and maybe you might understand! not everyones perfect, so just try and see the good in the new guy.
And by the way if those are your legs, you're FIT! (no im not lesbian!!)
2006-09-19 01:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah lifes a learning curve
2006-09-19 01:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by chieriog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its pretty rough. lessons learned and stuff. you can make yourself seem sincere but thats probably the best u can do. sorry i kno it sucks : (
2006-09-19 01:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Treezle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course but thats life u live and learn
2006-09-19 01:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but i would like to say you have nice legs
2006-09-19 01:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by vette 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea
2006-09-19 01:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋