I know its not healthy to go on thinking too much n worrying abt him coz he has confirmed not interested. I really WANT to forget him n go on living a very healthy happy life but how to forget,it seems sooo... hard. Any tips pls?
2006-09-18 18:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by kuti 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The best way to forget him is by finding someone else. Yes, that's not always easy to do, but it's still the best way.
Just get out there and meet people. Spend time with friends... you can still have fun with friends, yes? Keep busy with others, and you'll be too busy to sit around and mope.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 18:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be better off and grow from this, then the answer is to NOT forget about the person, rather to accept the pain and emotions that come with it...and to let time take its course. Unless you are stalking him, or unless we are talking about decades of not allowing yourself to get close to someone else, it is unlikely you are thinking TOO much about this person. Everyone recovers, moves on differently. But moving on requires NOT forgetting or ignoring, and this applies to friends that pass away, other disappointments, as well. Feeling emotions is difficult, but managable; ignoring feelings is a recipe for disaster. Here's a simple tip...don't make yourself feel worse by setting a time limit or by punishing yourself for feeling sad or for worrying. Healthy does not mean happy in this case. It means sad : ).
2006-09-18 18:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by jeffreykwit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a LONG List of any & all of the lossers imperfections! Then a LONG List of your AMAZING Assets. U GO!!!
2006-09-18 18:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by rubysaf2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet new people!
2006-09-18 18:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time and its really hard, im going thru the same thing. meet new people i guess
2006-09-18 18:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnosis, when I click my fingers you will forget all about him.
2006-09-18 18:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new...although easier said than done it is possible!
2006-09-18 18:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get urself busy
socialize more
2006-09-18 18:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋