must i say this for the last time?

Question

when someone writes why do men cheat, its always some writing back talking about women do it to. geez i am so sick of that sh.t if anyone would use a hair on their fking brain they would know majority of the time if a woman cheats its because those jackas. that we call men drove us to it. men are full of it and women need to stop making excuses for them someone even said one time that its a new generation thats why. well thats no excuse to be a jackas. cause men were more respectful a long time ago. and dont say i have a problem cause i see this sht happen everyday. men cheat way more than women. i see it happened to all my friends, family, neighbors , classmates , strangers, etc. and all i hear is" he cheated on me". its even happened to me and my daughters. i dont care and i mean i dont care men are terrible and disrespectful. just look at some of the stuff they put in yahoo answers. and anyone who wants to get smart go ahead and knock yourself out. lol

Answer 1

Well put girl!!!

Answer 2

So basically your saying that everything is your partners fault? No wonder he's cheating on you.

How about sharing the blame for the problems in your relationship, talking, being open and honest. You know, having an actual relationship, not simply a f*ck buddy.

"men are terrible and disrespectful"

Wow, what a sweeping generalization. Can I get fries with that?

I guess I could take your approach and blame your rant on you being on your period. Nice and easy, no? Sure is, rag queen.

Answer 3

sorry to hear you have had bad experiences with men but have you ever thought that maybe its not just his fault but both of you?
The truth is that both have the fault in this. The basic problem is communication coupled with the fact that most people dont take the necessary time to understand each other's needs before they get married. Once married, most woman get overly possessive and men dont like that. On the other hand, men become too lacks. They feel that because they have their wives at home, they can come out here and start to explore the waters again (which they should have done before they got married or would have done if they werent in such haste to get married. Lots of couple just get together and after a short while together, get their mind clouded with the sex and feel like they are so madly in love that they can only satisfy this urge by getting married. Later they both find out that the flame starts dying in the relationship and they are too stubburn to try to communicate with each other to find out what is going wrong. They are just quick to point fingers and say its not their fault but the other partner. That's when the relationship starts going downhill and leads to cheating, separation, and finally divorce. If people would learn to communicate with each other and just find the time to look at their relationships, then marriages would last, relationships would grow and the flame would glow so great. One of the things I do in my thirteen years of marriage is from time to time when I see myself or my wife getting stressed out in our relationship whether it be her fault, my fault or the kids fault is that I would take her somewhere special for the weekend where we can both just spend quality time together and reflect on what is going good or bad in the relationship. Where we are doing good and where we are slipping so we can know what to work on in the future. Believe me it works and it really makes you feel like a young couple all over again. You must always remember also what about your partner that brought the two of you together and try to hold on to that. If you see you partner changing into something that you dont like, its your duty to remind them of what it was about him/her that brought you close together. The problem of today is just that everyone is too stubburn to admit that they also have some fault in what is going wrong. You cannot comdemn a person until you know why they do what they do. Maybe you will find out that its a reaction to some action that you did.

Answer 4

well now you certainly had something to say. I wonder who those men cheat with? women maybe? women really don't know why us men cheat and sometimes we don't know either. I do know that most men are raised by women, mmmmmmu. I know its impossible for opposites to actually relate and understand each other and parents continue to raise there kids to believe certain things are okay if you are a boy or if you are a girl. I suppose you were Miss Innocent and you are still pissed about your husband cheating, gee i wonder how i knew that.

Answer 5

well i feel you on this but there are some good men left just gotta find them seems to me men have left a very bad taste in ur mouth and mine as well...ive been thru crap like that and alot of women do cheat cuz either their man cheated or they are getting beat up or the men just are being jack*** but men see women as nothing to it they just want to **** and be done and go back to their woman at home where they are comfortable...But i look for caring and men that are more sensitive cuz those are the men that actually will feel to guilty but u have to make sure they are ginuwine.......

Answer 6

You lack the very thing that you claim these other people lack and that's responsibility. Everyone regardless of gender are responsibible for their actions, so if a woman cheats, she cheats, plan and simple. No man made her do it and vice versa. Now it's clear you're quite bitter and that's unfortunate, b/c you should not have allowed yourself to lose your happiness.....

Answer 7

well.... maturity is the most factor. women are created to be the lovable caring and nurturing. and they want that right one. and men are created with hormones to produce it is in their nature. so when they see a girl or gets close to one one their hormones kick in and thats why men are like that. thats why you see pretty women with unattractive guys. they want that great relationship. and you have to know if the guy you are with are very mature and can handle that kind of pressure.

Answer 8

I think that we cheat either because we don't find what we are looking for in the lady or the lady doesn't know how to treat us the way we want is to be treated..

Answer 9

Damm girl........!!!

Why do you keep score of who it cheating the most?

Most of the are slu.ts anyway, most of the woman know the man has a g/f or wife but they still wanna FU(K him.

So don't come and tell me that women are angels, buuulllllshhitt.

Answer 10

Have you read some of my questions? Read and see if I am like the rest of the men. ok.

Answer 11

i hardly see women cheat, and tell men grow up. they stereotype women, so can we!