2006-09-18 18:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by gal in confusion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give the poor guy the chance to get to the store and do some window shopping. A big expense like an engagement ring isn't something that you want to buy the first thing you find.
2006-09-18 18:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that impatience or fear I hear? If you do not know the gentleman well enough to know if his promises are sincere, then really I would be thinking about should I have said yes. Two days is nothing. Not only did he have the sense to bring his intention to you to see if you were ready to accept it yet but he is with little doubt out pricing rings right now to see what is a good buy. That may take him a couple of weeks or it may take him a couple of months. Relax a little. Then there is the financing or the saving to allow time for and the right moment to give it. Now if 6 months went by without receiving it (and he may well intend to give it to you for Christmas-alot of men do that even tho some women view that as tacky because then it
usually ends up being their Christmas present too) -6 months, I would expect at least to hear more about it or count it a lost cause then. The question I would ask tho is did you say anything to pressure him for a ring. If that is the case it is also a mistake. Men have to do the pressuring and he may not have been ready to.
In that scenario he could just be making the promise with no intention of following through or you may not have known him a long time and he is only promising to eventually get you one. I wish you had given me more information. Anyway, have a little more patience-the things we have to wait for are the most appreciated and if we have to wait beyond a time of reason they are things we often should forget about. I hope that helped explain the situation.
2006-09-18 18:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by beverly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time... i knw you are waiting for his call... if u get busy then ull definitely get a call when u are least expecting it... mebbe he got a lil busy... i knw this hapens all the time... WAIT for sometime... give him sometime too... if hes doesnt want to call u back then if not now then later he definitely will tell u y he dint!! have paitience.. if u be tooo eager ull land up in tears ... so hold on.. even ive been through a similar situation... best of luck :)
2006-09-18 19:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 days isn't a very long time. Wait a while longer and see what happens.
2006-09-18 18:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked u to marry him then he WILL gove u a ring if he promised you be paitent and loving he hasn't forgotten u
2006-09-18 18:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Camera_Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you.... He will. It has ONLY been 2 days. He is probaly waiting for the perfect moment and/or trying to find the right rock for his woman....
2006-09-18 18:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by kittina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I takes time to find just the right one. Give him time
2006-09-18 18:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by KieKie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you all about the ring or something? Poor guy
2006-09-18 18:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by elong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably needs some time .. relax and give him the time he needs .. it's nothing like that, if he's serious and true, he'll come with the ring
2006-09-19 19:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
2006-09-18 19:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋