i cheated on her and tell her about it 8 months ago. then i stoped cheating. we wer ok but then, that 8 months she was always insisting for us to be officially commited again but then, i always turn her down but deep inside me i wanted it too but im not sure and wanted that i want to focus on my life, be single and stay as we are- friends and lovers. But, one day i decided and made up my mind that i want this! i want her back into my life again but when i asked her, She dont want us any more,only but friends, but our sweetness with each other have never gone. One day i found out the reason why she didnt want it anymore, a guy has been courting her. My world came crushing down. i asked her for a chance and she balanced who wil she chose between us, but then i become paranoid all the time and make hold her on whatever she does. But she told me she cant resist the new guy. Then she decided to choose the guy. Now, its been two months that they have their relationship. Is there a way?
2006-09-18 18:06:12 · 19 answers · asked by zipperman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im planning to ask her once and for all. to have an official closure and her finally which path she will take. another thing is that im so confused why still she contacting my mother secretly but my mom reveals it to me. i mean that weve been together for 3 years and she was very close to my mom. so whats the plan. what will i tell her for the last time to ask her back. whatever her decision i will respect. but somehow i want her back. what should i do and tell her. im planing this so it will turn out great. please give some advice. tnx.
2006-09-18 18:24:27 · update #1
you got what you deserved!
2006-09-18 18:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by dragonlady 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you can't make up your mind, You cheated on her, told her, but then didn't want to commit, sounds fishy. THEN when you decided you wanted her back and she had gotten tired of waiting around for you. I wouldn't take your *** back either, I've been down that road it's an automitcal deal breaker for me.
2006-09-18 18:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably loves you if she stayed with you after you told her you cheated on her, "love is blind" but now that the new guy is in the picture, she may think it's best to pick him and start new instead of taking the chance on gettyng hurt again with you, if you cheated on her once she probably realises sooner or later you'll do it again, you're lucky that she even gave you a second chance.
2006-09-18 18:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by spanishqueen39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so,don't be so selfish,u cheated on her and then u hesitated in that commitment thing between u two,and now after she's established a new life with another person u want her back...just try to forget about her
2006-09-18 18:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Oma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened between me and my ex ex, he wanted me back but i already broke up with the ex lol its just too late. I'm sorry but it's true, you made mistakes, you gotta live with it. Even you got back together she wouldnt be able to trust you 100%. Just give up and find another girl start over new again.
2006-09-18 18:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by ImaCandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just have to give the girl some time to be happy with the new guy. if you really love her and you really care about her. you should not insist on what you wanted to happen. just respect her decision and dont pressure her. or you might just lose her completely
2006-09-18 18:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by roses_july 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im gonna go with the majority on this one and say how can you even expect her to consider taking you back. when your in a relaltionship with someone you love you dont do anything that will hurt them. if you really did/do love her then let her be happy and move on with your own life.
2006-09-18 18:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often in life you have but one chance! And you blew yours big time!
It's doubt full that you'll win her back permanently! I would suggest you forget her and go on with your life!
Build a happier life for yourself.
2006-09-18 18:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you know the value of a good thing.
Sometimes you had to learn the hard way, and this is your consequences.
2006-09-18 18:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A sinsear appology in person with flowers does the trick and dont forget to say you want to start over and introduce your self
2006-09-18 18:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Shaboobalaboopie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2014-08-19 20:17:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋