Okay im meeting someone very important for the first time the 30th and im just freaking out cause i dont know what to say to him..im thinking something slick and cool like...Hi ..but what do i say after that? Damn it this is stupid but yeah..hes like really cute and **** and i kinda get tounge tied when i talk to cute guys ..im already a retard but i dont wanna sound like a bigger doofus then i already am...please help
2006-09-18 18:01:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him about himself
2006-09-18 18:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweets 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be cool. Don't think that you will be nervous because you'll just be setting yourself up for failure. It's all a mind game. You have to keep telling yourself that you can talk to him, he's just a normal person like you. Don't think about how cute he is or how dumb you think you'll sound. Just tell yourself he's skin and bones the same as you. Have fun, don't be afraid to laugh at yourself if you mess up. If he's a great guy he won't care anyway! Good Luck!
2006-09-19 01:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you find anymore nice things to say about yourself? first you might want to turn on your positive side about yourself you are not a retard I bet and not a doofus either. What works for me to just say i am speechless when i get nervous and just say i am trying to relax so don't let it bother you if i don't say much. Some times the truth sets you relax.
2006-09-19 01:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hello and just remember that the conversation is not all YOUR responsibility. Let him speak and entertain you. Ask questions you are interested in knowing about him and if he is interested he will do the same. Be yourself and have fun.
2006-09-19 01:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never try to be anyone excepting yourself. Make yourself less nervous by imagining him standing there naked, with nothing on but a pair of black socks. That will kill any stress, guaranteed. Hope you have a great day with him.
2006-09-19 01:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a topic that you are formiliar with, something you are good at, then he will be the one who has a twisted tounge lol
2006-09-19 01:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by ImaCandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, be friendly and nice and the cute guy will see that he can be comfortable around you, and be himself as we'll. It works trust me.
2006-09-19 01:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by anthonyrd2003 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just totally make out with him. Then Anything after that wont matter!
2006-09-19 01:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Potatoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all freak out with what are going to say...but we never anticipate that the other person actually will speak also. go with flow
2006-09-19 01:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and talk to the guy. also be yourself.
2006-09-19 01:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋