Ok, so heres the story, this weekend during a business trip I got to really meet a collegue of mine. Afterhours, everyone was chatting away and we ended up sparking a conversation. It started off innocently, talking about his experiences in the navy, and my military background. Eventually we got on the subject of sex, soon everyone around us had left and we were alone talking very explictly about experiences, and desires. My big issue is that hes a newly married man, happy with a beautiful wife....although he confided in me that she was far from as experienced as both of us were. He kept asking me what turned me on, even asking if i was aroused by the conversation(to which i answered yes). He never tried anything but we have to work together and after that nite im very sexually attracted to him, and hes said we should hang out more. I just dont know how to act around him now. I will not attempt to play homewrecker....
2006-09-18 17:59:11 · 8 answers · asked by sugasofly85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to know what to think of all this.
2006-09-18 18:06:44 · update #1
This was an indepth conversation....more graphic than I can write here and we talked until 4 am..........
2006-09-18 18:12:22 · update #2
and i can't be 100% sure, but i think he was getting off on our conversation.
2006-09-18 18:36:13 · update #3
while you still have the chance think of this as a relaxed flirtation away from home - he probably thought it was a little daring but he is newly married therefore there is more than a BIG chance he is totally loved up with his new mrs and if you guys got together he and you would probably end up feeling miserable and guilty and akwward which will effect work
he sounds like a great guy - the sort you want on your side, try and behave lightheartedly and relaxed when you meet him this morning you deserve better and frankly so does he
2006-09-18 18:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His young wife is far from experienced. Now that they are married, don't they have a lot of opportunity to build on this inexperience? Wouldn't a normal man be glad that he's married an inexperienced wife? What do you think he wants with you?
Don't be so egoistic to think that he will prefer you over his wife!
He's obviously looking for an opportunity to bed someone who appears to be interested in him, that's all!
Anyway, the decision is yours to make. If you are down to earth and not have any high hopes of any long term relationship with him, then do what your heart tells you to. But be prepared for the consequences though.
2006-09-19 01:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, Sug, that you are not going to be a home wrecker. This guy is BAD NEWS. Keep as far away from him as possible. He will not hesitate to try to take advantage of you...something you DO NOT need. I hope he is not your supervisor at work.
Look at him and convince yourself that he is a DEAD MAN WALKING... you don't have any use for some other woman's man. You will never be sorry for being strong and passing on this one. He's a low life...snakes don't get any lower.
2006-09-19 01:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess I'm lost on the question here. Keep to your selfrespect and be proud you didn't break up a marriage or be used by a married man.
2006-09-19 01:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he's looking for an affair. if that's all you want then go for it, but don't ever expect him to leave his wife for you. that never happens and even if he did it would never workout. it can only be a fling and it would be very exciting at first but in time it would die and you have to ask yourself if you would be hurt when it ends. up to you but just know what you are getting into. all married people get bored with their partner at some point. he may very much like you but its complicated.
2006-09-19 01:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. don't even think about it. if you're looking for pleasure there are millions other eligible men. not him, try stand in his wife's shoes????
2006-09-19 01:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kolibri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
controlling is more powerful than committing.if u commit for him ur an ordinary....very ordinary gal..conroll ur self and look at ur self..
feel extraordinary...
2006-09-19 01:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by chakradhar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, find your own man......
2006-09-19 01:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋