I know that I'm not going to ask the Retard to the R Monster for any advise.
2006-09-18 17:40:13 · 36 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow! That didn't last long, Donna! I thought you got something going with your Christian boyfriend since you divorced your Muslim hubby. I guess you should reconcile and go back again to Vegas with your ex-Muslim hubby and get married again the second time around!! Now that would make it even, Donna(Christian) with ex-Muslim hubby-hubby-again.... ex-Christian boyfriend with his Muslim chick.
2006-09-19 04:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Trixie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think what you have to ask yourself is what difference it makes whether he calls himself Christian or not- because people dont seem very Christian to me if they are off having sex when they arent married, or practicing any other type of sinful lifestyle- never mind, I wont go there because quite frankly that dont matter to most people anyways- seems that just calling ourselves Christian is what makes us Christian.
Anyways, throw away the religious titles and wonder why your boyfriend left you for another woman period. What should you do? Nothing! Move on. I know it sucks to hear, but if he wants to be with her, no matter how much THAT hurts- you dont want him anyways.
I know how much it hurts to have your heart broke, believe me, I do. The cold truth is that we cannot force people to be with us if they dont want to be. No matter what we do isnt going to make them love us more if they dont on their own. The key is to not take it personal, because it is simply that he isnt into you anymore like that- just as you can change your mind about the shoes you wear, people change their minds and their hearts too.
The worst thing is when someone leads you on for a long time and then just pulls the rug out from under you with a bunch of cruel words and ruthless behavior. If he is being a jerk to you, you dont deserve that and he dont deserve you- if he is trying to be cool about it, dont be a jerk to him for losing interest.
If he just dont want to be with you and he tries to be nice about it- dont make him hate you. The best thing is to move on and be happy- if anything will get a guy back (if it is meant to be) showing that you can be sweet even while hurting- after time will get him back. Try parting as friends even though he has made a choice you dont agree with. Good luck.
2006-09-18 17:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for a search what special in that Muslim girl that you don't have...
Sit and think what mistake you did to him or why he cheat on you or what wrong you did or why he change his mind...
Because relationship should calculate or plan by your love or knowledge not by the ethnic or religion.
If he go .., so what? There is lot of guys in the world ... Do you like christian or Hindu or Muslim or Buddhist? You have lot of choice...Don't worry.. You will get better than him.
2006-09-18 17:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to the Vegas gig with the Muslim you were going to marry? Donna, you really need to get a man in your life, how in the world will you get into heaven if you don't do your subservient duty here on earth?
2006-09-18 17:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really do anything about it if he doesn't want you anymore but his new relationship will be shaky. Here's why:
Muslim women are not allowed to marry non-Muslim men. Muslims cannot convert unless they want to die. Conversion from being Muslim to another is punishable by death. Yes, no matter what you heard, that is the law. So unless he converts, there is no way in hell they'd be married.
2006-09-18 17:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by nicediwata 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was your boyfriend truly a Christian ? It is better to find out now than to have married Him and found out he was not truly a Christian. I know that it is hard on you right now. May you allow God to lead in your life right now.
2006-09-18 17:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by vikingprincess1955 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hook up with a French guy...then call your boyfriend and say, "i'm in love with a french boy." Man, if he's a true American (and even a half-hearted Christian), then that will bring him to his knees. Granted, you've got to be strong enough to handle the french guy--they are kind of pansy..
2006-09-18 17:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the next 3 weeks don't shave your armpits or legs. Also, don't bathe. That should turn him on big time, if he's into Arab chicks.
2006-09-19 17:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK that man did you a favor. MOVE ON. WHO would want a cheater any way? G-d has some one better 4 you so dont sweat it. HANG IN THERE G-d loves you ok?
2006-09-18 17:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the What should I do Retard.
2006-09-18 17:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋