So my parents are divorced and for half of my life ive always lived with my mom , but these last 2 past months ive benn living with my dad his new baby and his gf and i hate it !! but i don't have the heart to tell my dad that i wanna go back and live with my mom what should i do ? :[
2006-09-18 17:40:11 · 17 answers · asked by loveless1787 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey Scooby Doo.
Nice and articulate. Good clear touch with your feelings and the facts.
a) Can your mother take you back or is something going down behind your back like money/illness/boyfriend?
b) Can you take your D for a walk and identify what you don't like?
c) Why don't you have the heart to tell your dad what's your heart? What's going on in here? You love him - right; he loves you - right: so is the gf the issue?
d) How much is adjustment to new room/cook/friends/?school.
e) Finally, did anyone explain why this change went down?
2006-09-18 17:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your dad know how you feel. He will understand, He will miss you too but you can come visit him. Tell him that you have the worlds best parents but that you miss your mom and want to be with her for now. I am sure it will be okay. If he acts like he is hurt let him know that you love him and it is hard for you too. Good luck with this!
2006-09-19 00:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give it a little longer.I,m sure half your life must be a lot longer than the 2 months you have given your dad.
2006-09-19 00:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by john l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GIRL THATS A HARD ONE BUT I THINK EVEN THOUGH YOU CANT TELL HIM YOU SHOULD JUST DO IT YOU CANT GET ANYWHERE IF YOU DONT SAY ANYTHING JUST TAKE HIM INTO A ROOM JUST YOU AND HIM AND TELL HIM LOOK DAD IM SORRY ITS JUST NOT WORKING OUT IM SORRY BUT I WANT TO GO BACK WITH MY MOM AND IF HE ASK YOU WHY TELL HIM YOU DONT LIKE IT OR TELL HIM THE RESON ITS NOT WORKING
2006-09-19 00:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.sl33py 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him that it is not working out and you wish to return to Mom
2006-09-19 00:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something your dad can't provide you... Maybe you can find a school near your mum's house, or sthg like that!
2006-09-19 00:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest and tell him how you feel. Its best if you tell him before he finds out a more upsetting way.
2006-09-19 00:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Flygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a open and honest talk with your dad you don't want to start resent being there and act out good luck
2006-09-19 00:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain that youre better adapted to your mothers standard of living (without a screaming baby) and that you prefer to live with her
2006-09-19 00:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by DrPepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself tell him what you really wanna say
2006-09-19 00:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋