By taking a proactive step toward improving yourself. Garbage in equals garbage out. You must decide to take action and develop improved social skills, a mind that is to be valuable to others and also self-respect. You cannot have others be confident in you if you do not like, respect or develop your sense of value. You must believe that you are God given valued and your value is worth sharing with other people. If you are looking to improve yourself consider the constructive words of others as your friends. I've recently developed a blog to help people realize the greatness of respectful words. The blog is www.inspirewire.blogspot.com.
2006-09-18 17:43:05
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answered by JFG 1
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# Write down your goals to objectify and specify them. Often, we don’t really think until we write.
# Express who you are by letting your inner self out! Dress the way you want, not to impress others or what you "think" others want to see. You don’t need a cover-up. Wear what is comfortable and makes you feel good.
# Close your eyes and visualize the successful outcome. Believe that things will work out. See yourself successfully completing. Rehearse the steps in your mind, so that you become proficient. The less effort, the more proficient you will become.
# Shoo away the bullies in your mind who provide the reasons why you can’t, shouldn’t and will ultimately fail. Nothing is impossible to a willing mind.
# Find friends who will serve as your coach to inspire you to victory. You need a nurturing environment to grow. Imagine a sports team whose coach told them they were no good and would lose. Ultimately the team would lose.
# If you fail, then assume responsibility. Learn from your mistakes and don’t blame anyone else because then you give away your power. Victims are helpless. Don’t let anger control you and defeat you.
# You don’t have to excel at everything. Find the something you do well and build on it. Let that something be your identifying success.
# Become so strong inside that you do not have to demonstrate your power. It is a part of you, readily observable in your stance with shoulders back, heart open and head erect.
2006-09-18 17:35:58
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answered by JFAD 5
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Win 200 million dollars in the Superlotto. That'll boost anybody's confidence.
2006-09-18 17:33:05
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answered by JeffG 3
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go to school and get a degree. Education is a sure fire way to boost self-confidence
2006-09-18 17:32:17
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answered by sweet southern charm 3
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Setting a very small, very specific goal and completing it.
Getting something done that has been nagging you.
Trying something new that you are pretty sure you will succeed at.
Doing something extra to tend to your appearance...a new haircut, manicure, teeth whitening, tanning or working out, shine your fav shoes, or put on something that you KNOW makes you look REALLY good.
Talk to someone who makes you feel really good about yourself.
Teach someone something...or help someone who needs your help.
Confront someone who does something that has bugged you for a long time.
Give a big smile, a warm handshake, eye contact, and intro yourself to someone you don't know.
2006-09-18 17:36:05
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answered by musicimprovedme 7
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Hang around with ugly people. Just Kidding!!
Just be yourself. Attitude is really important in self confidence. Just feel confident & it will show.
2006-09-18 17:33:10
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answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6
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Take a course in public speaking. Or, join the Toastmasters Club. Getting over stage fright will transform you.
2006-09-18 17:40:12
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answered by Anonymous
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take a long shower brush your teeth go to bed wake up tommorrow lok in the mirror and realize that millions on this planet have it far worse than you do let go of your negative views and work on your positive we all have pluses but hide them behind our self pity you have the world by the *** live like theres no tommorrow
2006-09-18 17:42:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Look in the mirror every day and say: I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and gosh darn people like me! In fact do it about 5 times a day. Then you will believe it. :)
2006-09-18 17:34:11
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answered by Jan G 6
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Think about all the great things you have accomplished in life and the things that you have that other people would be envious of.
2006-09-18 17:32:31
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answered by LilSo1287 4
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