I met this guy from a bar,he is so cute and he is a bit shy, but finally he asked me out for a date, should I kiss him on the first date?(Geeeez I really want to!)but i don't want him to think im easy kinda girl i really like him, or should I hide all my interests n play hard to get???
2006-09-18 17:11:25 · 20 answers · asked by ImaCandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not just go on the date and go with the flow re: the kiss...if he attempts to kiss you, and you want it, then give him a smooch (not a tonsil checkup)...
However I NEVER recommend playing hard to get...it's just a form of lying and game playing...not the right way to start off a relationship...if you like someone, it's okay that they know it (just don't fall all over yourself around them)...pretending not to like them, to get their attention even more, is manipulative and decietful...is that the kind of person you want to be?
2006-09-18 17:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to kiss a guy on the first date, let him kiss you and just dont do anything else. He will not think you are easy. Never hide your interests, just be yourself, if it works out thats great! If it doesnt work out then you two were just not meant to be. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy when you least expect it...and when you're not looking.
2006-09-18 17:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by steelydawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you should kiss him on the first date is entirely up to you.Its your own choice.If you really like him, why not take things easy and let things flow?Take your time to find out everthing good AND bad about him.Appreciate the different facets of his character.Learn and understand how he works.Develop a bond (not neccessarily physical) with him.Doing all this will require a lot of time.
But i promise you that you will get the reward of a kiss in the midst of it all.
2006-09-18 17:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by niveky2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know when your date is... but I have a date tomorrow with a guy that I met at a bar. Sounds pretty split for the answers too. Let me know how things go and I'll fill you in on the same!
2006-09-18 17:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by JenM_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time kiss him when he drops you off after the date. Dont play hard to get how would you feel if he did that to you. Flirt and have fun getting to know this guy!
2006-09-18 17:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Candy. Since you are candy and candy is sweet, you must not let him know that you are an easy kinda girl. Later he can suppress and may ask you for sex. So dont be that much initative. Let the things happen in an easy way. Candy is to taste not to crush.
2006-09-18 17:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, kiss'm like that kiss you pay it 2 any one at Christmas or New year salbrations to feel him, be carefull. If he is the right man, things comming naturally, at that time can hold him cozy & let him push in.
2006-09-18 17:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by sirawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him on third date. let anticipation build up. YEE HAWW !!!! If you wore that pink cowgirl hat, I'd be all over you too. You are soooo yummy, ImaCandy.
email me...i'll holla and tell u how good ur pic looks to me.
2006-09-18 17:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why play games? this is why guys get pissed and relationships are tough to maintain. DON'T PLAY F'N games...like the other person said, just be yourself. Girls, continue to play games, and you'll be fat, single and fifty years old in no time!
2006-09-18 17:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by jnelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont limit yourself to kissing rules on the first date..if the time is right go for it...
2006-09-18 17:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋