OK well there is a girl that i work with that i knew had a crush on me.But the other day me,her,and a buddie of mine was talking at work and she said that she was thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend who she has been dating for almost forever but said she wasnt sure if she would yet.I then had to leave to go help some customers and i overheard my buddy telling her she should break up with him beacuse I had a thing for her,well not 5 minutes later she said she was going to break up with him,good for me right?Well like 20 minutes after that another guy who works with us said it would suck to see her now ex walk in and catch her with someone else and then she said that that wont happen cause she is done dating for a while.
It confused the hell out of me wondering if she was serious or maybe just playing some kind of game,so anyone (ladies view on this preferred) that can help me out please do so.Thanks
2006-09-18 16:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by bearcat_basketballfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wanted to see if you were paying attention. And you were, but you messed up by not replying. It's okay and totally fixable. Write a little (meaning short) note on the back of a receipt, and give it to her. Maybe something like...."don't throw in the towel, wanna give love another shot?" or " how about a date?" and of course your phone number.
2006-09-18 17:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. You said that she was with this other guy for "forever". Talk to her, get to know her before you try to develop a relationship, try being her friend first. Sounds like you would be a rebound if you dated right away and that usually ends badly. The fact that she is discussing her current relationship with a bunch of co-workers makes me think that she needs some support. Become her friend and she will appreciate you more. If things develop aftyer that the chances of your relationship lasting would be much greater. Who knows you may have a new best friend.
2006-09-18 17:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by freedom4ni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is doing this as a test to see if you go for her. From the sounds of it she likes you. Maybe she said she is done dating for awhile because she doesn't want to seem so desperate to move on or that you see her as doing the same to you if you two started dating. My best advice to you is just start going out as friends. Get to know each other so that way you both get to go out and get to know each other and that way there is no pressure on her part. That way it's still innocent as 2 friends going out. And then see where it goes from there. And if it doesn't work as a couple thing then you two will still have your friendship. Good Luck with everything.
2006-09-18 17:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prob does like you, but she seems as if she wants to take some time off from dating right now. Wait for about a week or so and ask her out.
2006-09-18 17:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third party information is rarely reliable. If you like her, once she has broken up with her boyfriend ask her out on a casual date and see where things go from there.
2006-09-18 17:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a grown woman and that's confusing to me! Either, one, she is playing hard to get or two, she needs time to get over the ex? I don't know. I would continue to talk, flirt, whatever, be yourself, see if things don't go your way.
2006-09-18 17:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not gonna say, yeah can't wait to break up with him so I can start dating right away. That was a little white lie. you'll know when she breaks up with him tomorrow .
2006-09-18 17:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by jassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a good idea to mess around at work. in most circumstances it is against policy and if things didn't work out then you'd have to see her all the time.
2006-09-18 17:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hear say from others is almost never correct mf! if you like her be yourself act as you have been. let a few weeks go by, than ask her if she'd like to go out to lunch sometime. if she likes and is ready to move forward w/ someone new, than she will accept your invitation. good luck!
2006-09-18 17:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by halieysmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not want to date, but wouldn't mind a roll in the hay!
2006-09-18 17:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by HCH32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋