Question for Christians or very religious individuals only please...?

Question

I've heard that oral sex originated from homosexuality... is that true? And... is oral sex between married people considered wrong, unclean, shameful conduct, a gross or perverted sex act, or anything that, as the scriptures mention, defiel the marriage bed?

Answer 1

no, no ,no

Oh by the way Alucard, Sodomy is an al sex.

Oral sex is referred to as felatio!

Answer 2

There is no way to know where oral sex originated from but it is much more likely that it originated between heterosexuals because they have always been a majority of the population.


Is Oral Sex A Sin - What Does the Bible Say?
Couples often ask, "Is oral sex a sin?" The best place to look for answers is in the Bible. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." The first point the Bible makes very clear is that sex - all types - is designed specifically for married couples. Non-married couples are not to practice premarital sex.

The Bible never indicates exactly what a husband and wife are allowed to do in their sexual relationship. However, there are some sexual principles that we can consider.



Mutual Consent - 1 Corinthians 7:5 says, "Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." This verse indicates that each sexual activity should be mutually agreed upon.


Adultery is Sin - The Bible is very clear that any form of adultery is sin, even if both people in a marriage relationship agree to it. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says, "It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God." Adultery also includes "swapping" or adding sexual partners.

Viewing Pornography is a Sin - Matthew 5:28 is very clear. "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Pornography viewed alone or together as a couple is sin. 1 John 2:16 says, "For everything in the world - the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does - comes not from the Father but from the world."

Is Oral Sex A Sin - Practical Application
When answering the question "Is oral sex a sin," it is important to remember that God created sex to be a beautiful expression of love for married couples. When the husband or the wife does not feel that sex is a "beautiful expression of love," then changes need to be made in that couple's sex life. Evidentially, the actions are not mutually beneficial to each person. Nothing in the Bible says that oral sex is a sin, however it may not be appropriate for every couple.

Is Oral Sex A Sin - Questions to Consider
Consider these questions when answering the question "Is oral sex a sin?"

Is oral sex voluntary and have both the husband and wife agreed to it?


Why do you want oral sex? Is it for pure sexual pleasure or is it to fulfill a sexual fantasy derived from porn?


Have you or your spouse been convicted by the Holy Spirit that oral sex is wrong?


Does oral sex edify and fulfill both you and your spouse?
While answering these questions, pray for guidance from God. He will reveal the answer to you - for your relationship.

Answer 3

“fornication”? comes from the Greek word por·nei′a, which is sometimes used to apply to sexual relations between unmarried people. (1 Corinthians 6:9) Elsewhere, such as at Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9, the term is broader in meaning and refers additionally to adultery, incest, and bestiality. Other sexual practices between individuals not married to each other, such as oral and anal sex and the sexual manipulation of another person’s genitalia, can also be designated as por·nei′a. All such practices are condemned, either explicitly or by implication, in God’s Word. Leviticus 20:10, 13, 15, 16; Romans 1:24, 26, 27, 32.

Answer 4

I've heard oral sex described as "the Baptist Special". In other words, it's all Christian girls who want to be virgins when they marry will do. So pin the blame elsewhere.

Answer 5

No I think oral sex is different with anal sex and homosexuality.Oral sex is between man/husband and woman/wife.Homosexuality is between a man and other man or lesbian between a woman with other woman.Anal sex can be done by man and woman or by man with other man.All of those are not in line with a good islamic teaching.Oral sex is not normal and it is a dirty play.Islam wants anything neat and clean.We should avoid those kind of sex plays

Answer 6

Well for the first part of your question- I do not know where it originated. As for it being an unclean act- I believe it is an unclean act. Also I am a Christian.

Answer 7

The Bible does not define what is meant by 'sodomy'. All we know, is that it consists of acts that 7th century BC Hebrews considered wrong.

There is nothing in the Bible that spells out 'though shalt not perform cunnilingus or fellatio'.

Answer 8

The bible does not specific prohibit this for married people. God did make this a pleasurable act.

Answer 9

As long as you're married, I think you can do pretty much whatever you want. There are no guidelines, other than being married because sex is a gift.

Answer 10

I don't know about scriptures, but oral sex came around (pardon the pun) when people realized they could please their lovers in more ways than one. And there's nothing wrong with it. What could be wrong about wanting to please your lover. Start lapping, dude!

Answer 11

Depends on your reiligion. Some think that no act which doesn't produce children is forbidden.