kk we started going out then he told me straight up that he kissed another gurl so i told him i kissed another guy then we like broke up but the next day we started goin out againthen he cheated on me with this chick melissa then went back out with her and this time i found out and he deined it and were still goin out and i asked him if he wanted to break up and go out with ppl closer to us since hes in wisconsin and im in ohio and he said no baby dont leave i love u baby and all that so like am i just a back-up cushion or watever in case him and melissa dont work out or and im really his gurlfriend or wat im so confused
2006-09-18 16:17:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him, this guys a loser.
2006-09-18 16:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop wastin ur time on this loser! there is plenty more where he came from... he's cheated/strayed once - twice - three times, he'll continue to use u...y? b/c u let him. Stand up for urself!!! Just let him go...he'll never treat u the way u need to be treated...been there, done that...will never do it again! Good luck!
2006-09-18 23:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by drcil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships hardly or never work. They say love is supposed to be enough, but sometimes it never is. So to answer your question if he wants to be with you... I would have to say that he's a player, and once a player always a player.
2006-09-18 23:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by tutorgurl06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in different states, if you need to date a cheater, find on in your own state since I am sure they're all over the place.
2006-09-18 23:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him use you, that's what is wrong with the girls how days, u let them **** you over, then we cry, don't let him make you look like a fool. LOSE HIM there are plenty of fish in he sea. don't let guys do that to you, hes more then likely laughing at you cuz hes got u fooled. let it go before u get hurt worse.
2006-09-18 23:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by mom1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you are have a hard time with this so called boyfriend. he says to you that he loves you, he is shoting you a line for if he did, he would not being going out with this other girl also.plus it sounds to me all he wants is his cake and eat it too. and that is just a saying, that means if he can get away with having both of you , he will. and beside that, and one thing that both of you don't know ,it's the girl that calls all the shots and not him. if you stand your gound and say that you are not going to put up with being treated like that, tell then i'm going to move on, for a guy that deserve you. and it the girl that chooses the guy in the first place and not the other way around. it sounds like you are young,i told my girls this is the only time to have fun with your friend for before long you will be out of your teens and all guys in their teens just want sex from you and when they are really ready for a girlfriend for then to fall in love with, they are going to want a girl that has not been with alot of guys. and then they have to see if the girl that just had fun in her teens with her friend without some guy telling them what to do. the guy that will want to be with you has to see and wait to see if you will choose him to get to know and like and falled in love. just remember guys in their teens don't want love and get married , they just want to have fun, just like you but in a diffrent way. good luck and i hope i helped alittle.
2006-09-18 23:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Linda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh I understand where your coming from. Hes a sweet talker? Well sounds like you are a REBOUND girl. Date other people. Forget him.
2006-09-18 23:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Allie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should leave him. It does seem that your just a back-up. I think you gave him all the chances he deserved. I'm sure you could get someone who treats you better!
2006-09-18 23:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not and never will be his girlfriend or any one elses "true girlfriend" if you keep allowing youself to be disrespected and used.
2006-09-18 23:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by freedom4ni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM {FOREVER THIS TIME!!!}
he really is not worth your time, all of that cheating.{he should be ashamed, and you should be ashamed for following in his footsteps!}
2006-09-18 23:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl what the hell are you doing with him? once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-18 23:19:26 · answer #11 · answered by St@r 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋