Can you make a strong move without being seen as easy or slutty?
Also, in this scenario, the guy cannot make a move first b/c he is afraid of sexual harrassment lawsuits.
2006-09-18 16:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by abcdefg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have done aboslute nothing yet and the sexual tension gets worse and worse.
He has set himself to go on this business trip with me and I know he's only going b/c of me. Considering his conservative and cautious personality, I was surprised he's setting himself up for rumors.
Anyhow, b/c of our age difference, I can see he's not absolutely confident and he's nervous around me. So it's up to me to make the move, but definitely don't want to seem slutty b/c I want to marry him.
2006-09-18 16:15:16 · update #1
so the question is if the guy is already in love with you, does the girl making the move that might seem slutty if you don't know her would not seem slutty anymore since he would want it.
2006-09-18 16:18:51 · update #2
go ahead p.u.s.s.y whip him
2006-09-18 16:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, b/c he may think you are sexually harassing him. So if he's interested, he has to trust his judgment and you as well. If he knows you well enough, then there shouldn't be an issue. Sometimes they don't trust and everyone loses out on true love made in heaven, truly they do, take my word for it...........
2006-09-18 23:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully ya'll have made out by now so the next time you get hot and heavy and wanna go further pull your tongue out of his mouth and move it to his ear. That will get any guy ready.
2006-09-18 23:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by gohorns_ut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's afraid of a sexual harassment lawsuit, he's not in love with you.
2006-09-18 23:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask him to wait for the sex til marriage, and he respect that and he doesn't leave you, he is really in love with you. other wise he's just playing with you
2006-09-18 23:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by ronaldant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or her you are going to a place after work and invite them along, if it works do the talking after work then there is no problem
2006-09-18 23:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gets a hardon
2006-09-18 23:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋