why are cases of live-ins,abortion,separation and divorce increasing?

Answer 1

Divorce in my opinion is increasing because now adays noone really values a long realationship,while growing up my mom and dad never considered divorce sure they had problems but they valued their wedding vows. Now 48 years later they are still married and still very happy. Me and my husband both value marriage especially for our child. We both had the up bringing where family was number one not everyone does. They are not wrong just differant from me.Some donot understand that a marriage is not only for life it is a constant compromise. Abortion has increased because noone uses birth control properly a person I know is 25 and has had 9 abortions she does not use birth control why she says she always forgets. now not everyuone who has a abortion is as irresponsible as her some get pregnant and are not ready. As far as live ins there is nothing wrong with that in my mind I think it is nice to know someione before you marry. Me and my husband were roommates before we started dating and have lived together and have gotten married since.

Answer 2

People are a lot more irresponsible these days. We're products coming out of the generation of "free love" and yadda yadda and that takes a big toll on everything.

I know it's not right, but personally I think living together is a good option before getting married. A lot of people get divorced because once the wedding/honeymoon period is over, it's a shock to them to find out what it's really like to live with someone you're committed to. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying live together with no intentions of getting married. If you have every intention on seeing the relationship through to the next level, then I think living together is a good start. Just to see if you can "live" together.

Everyone is looking for the easy way out these days. Divorces are hard to go through, but easy to get and society doesn't frown upon it like it used to. Sometimes there is no other option than divorce, but I think a lot of people forgo the counseling they could seek to save their marriage, especially when children are involved.

And abortion, a lot of that is the same as divorce, people being irresponsible and wanting to take the easy way out. My opinion is if you're old enough to lie down and make the baby, then you're old enough to take care of it. (there are special circumstances of course)

Answer 3

I don't think that people think about what they are doing before they do it anymore. I didn't when I got married at 18 and was divorced at 20. There are too many easy outs and people just do things on a whim and know that they still have a way out of things even if those things (i.e. marriage, and children) are not something that should be taken lightly! Not enough of a thought process anymore!

Answer 4

when it comes to divorce, its to easy. Maybe tax the person who initiated the divorce more ?( that will get me a thumbs down )
I dont think people realize how much work goes into marriage. People think you get married and a little wand sprinkles love dust on ya and poof 50 yrs of marriage easy, WRONG.

I've been married 14 yr and counting and let me tell ya there are days when i look at my hubby and I go who the hell are you? BUT we work at it, its constant gardening.
When my husband and I started talking about marriage, we just decided divorce was never an option for us and we've never brought it up, even during the worst times in our marriage.
I think it has to do with the role model you have for marriage. My parents have been married 37 yrs and counting, hubbys parents for 47 and counting

Answer 5

Very Interesting Question. - I wonder if Husbands & Wifes land up in Divorce court out of "lack of respect" for each other. According to me & my little experience, NOW A DAYS , ( apart from those legitimate cases related to physical or mental abuse by one partner or dowry case or case of cheating ) , most of other cases are due to Lack of Capacity to Tolerate each other & Lack of patience to wait for storm to sail through. Current Generation want instant gratification or result. Small adjustments are termed as Compromised . Real Compromise are out of question ( take it or leave it ) , TIT for TAT rules governs the relationship , Olden Days, there was one Captain of the Ship ( normally Male), He was also provider of the Family Plus by default 'considered' More capable & Most suitable for the role. His Dictate was final. Whether Fair or Unfair, it didnt matter. Nobody there to question. However now, there are Two Captain of the Same Ship called Marriage. Now if & when a situation arises where both the captain tries to prevail upon each other on basis of being Captain, No one knows who should listen to whom. Today personal happiness has far more important than anything else. Double Standards or Two different set of rules governing relationship are no more tolerated. hence rise in no of divorce cases.

Answer 6

Because parents are depending on schools to teach their children values because they are too busy to do it themselves, yet they want them to do so without the benefit of good old fashioned discipline, consistency, support or prayer.

Answer 7

The BIBLE states that ' IN THE LAST DAYS WILL BE PERILOUS/TROUBLOUS TIMES "
These things happen to show that God's Word is truth and these these things , called SIN would multiply. That is why Jesus MUST come back to take His people to Heaven. He invites us to come to him. He will do the rest - saving part.

Answer 8

Because there are more people in the world.