i've been talking to a girl on myspace and want "more" but she's still in highschool (18yrs. old) and i'm a teacher(25+)... should i stop or just wait until school's out?
2006-09-18 15:48:51 · 9 answers · asked by paul h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"more" being what? A real relationship? something more physical?
To be honest.... i dont think you should. This just sounds wrong. YOU"RE A TEACHER. You are trusted by the community to be looking out for the well being of their children...regardless of whether or not you teach her directly. Dating someone while they are in school..... or even having a relationship online with one is wrong. Where do you draw the line? What happens if you date her and it doesn't work out? Will you rationalize how its ok to date someone slightly younger....because she was just as mature as this one was?
It's a slippery slope my friend...and I would watch myself carefully. Bottom line...this could ruin your career, if coworkers find out.... and I personally think its morally wrong.
By the way... you were intentionally ambiguous on your descriptions. She is on myspace..and is a student? At your school? You're a teacher?? but your age is 25+? How much + are we talking about? Because technically.... you are also 21 + or 15+. If you are anything over 25.... i am deeply concerned for you. WHY in the world would an 18 yr old be attractive to you? I mean seriously.... besides sex. And if its for sex..... ugh.... well.... get help.
Good luck.... make the right choice.
2006-09-18 16:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with both Todd and Cait. You should wait until she graduates because you don't want to mess up your career. Believe it or not but your personal life can affect your career when you're a teacher. And myspace is a bad idea to hook up with somebody.
2006-09-18 22:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by sexxyredcaramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to stop now before you get into trouble. Think with you head, not your penis.
I don't trust all the people you find on MYSPACE
You would be better off, meeting people in your area in person, not over the internet.
2006-09-18 22:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life and start working on a social life away from the Internet
2006-09-18 22:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude she could be lying and be like 13 trust me i was 12 when i first got one. and you have to be 14 to get one plus my friends do too.
2006-09-18 23:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you want to use her . . . but intent predators are a huge problem! my-space is notorious for that trouble. that is a terrible notion to even consider. you need a girl 21+.
2006-09-18 22:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER GET Out of school and then do whatever you want to do
2006-09-18 22:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait what the rush she ain't going no where relax? its you space ---smile
2006-09-18 22:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace relationships...bad idea....
2006-09-18 22:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋