i'm dating this guy and i don't want him to date other people. i am starting to like someone else but i don't want to leave my current BF. i love him... but i want to be with this other guy and basically put the current one on hold.
does that make me a horrible person or just a user???
2006-09-18 14:57:12 · 14 answers · asked by playful_kitty_003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not horrible, just a whore
2006-09-18 15:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by moolie_wfo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt make you a horrible person. It just makes you a not ready for commitment of a bf/gf person. Remember honey to have some self control before you end up hurting people including yourself. Dont let that instant gratification get he best of you.
2006-09-18 22:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a bit confused. If you love your boyfriend, then why do you want to be with this other guy? I think you need to sit down with your boyfreind and talk this out with him, or look inside yourself and figure out which of these guys you would like to be with better.
It doesn't make you a horrible person, all it means is that you are conused and need to sort some issues out.
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-18 22:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both but the truth is if you are thinking about another guy then youre not really in love with your boyfriend.
End things with him. He deserves to move on and find someone who truly wants to be with him & if you don't end things with him and you get with this other guy then you wont be a ble to havge a fulfilling relationship because your still attached to your BF.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 22:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not horrible, but rather selfish. If you want to play the field, then you should let him do the same. And if you discover you really love each other, you'll both come back.
2006-09-18 22:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were just put aside while your boyfriend wanted to be with another girl! Thats horrible, I would feel used if my boyfriend did that to me. If you love your boyfriend, you should care more about him, and show more respect towards him. Choose one, or you'll end up with no one, cause no body would feel like they could trust you!
2006-09-18 22:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say a confused person is more like it. No not horrible, just unsure of what lays ahead for your life. Do yourself a favor and THINK before you speak.
2006-09-18 22:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by luvofxanth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means you aren't commited, and you don't love the one your with. You have to pick one or the other, you can't go out and test drive all these guys and intend to come back to a good one, because trust me, someone will have already got him.
2006-09-18 21:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by The Muppet Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love the person you with, either you:
1. are just trying to create drama in your life
2. you're trying to self distruct a relationship
3. you really DON'T love the person
You can't have your cake and eat it too. Good luck though!
2006-09-18 22:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by WeekendWarrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not right to him. You are either in a serious relationship or not. Its not good to "play" him against another guy.. Would you like it if he did that to you?
2006-09-18 22:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by Michael S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are young then go for it. even if he does see someone else if you and him were meant to be then you will find your way back to eachother but you won't know that until you try new things.....go with new people. i'm not saying go hump everyone you see but well.....you know....
2006-09-18 22:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by Bitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋