It seems I have been running into the wrong women, I'm a single guy that still believes in opening doors for women, pulling out the chair for her, leaving "love" notes and/or sending flowers for no particular reason at all. I would love to find a women that's not totally into materialistic things, be with me because of me, love me because of me, not b/c what I do for a living or what I make for a living. Point blank, seeking my soulmate and best friend and I wonder if she even exists...
2006-09-18 14:47:37 · 18 answers · asked by jon m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good luck on your journey ...
2006-09-18 14:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have faith, and you keep a steady journey of your life without making this emotional void as your primary motivation for life's daily decisions - keeping focus to the visions that you want realized for your future, you will suddenly be introduced to her without even making an effort. Eventhough you overlook her time and time again - you will cross paths until your eyes meet and feel the fireworks fly.
Keep yourself grounded to reality. Your wait will be worth every second - by the time she gets introduced to you, you would have matured to a far more better man than you already are right now.
Keep your faith. Keep your focus. Keep your discipline. Keep your vision. Be strong and keep to the narrow, straight path. Your wait and your faith will be fully rewarded.
I'm saying this because it happened to me - and my husband has been God's perfect gift - it's been a 15-year lonely journey; and our path weren't that flowery - but no matter how we look at it, however we ventured to our histories - our lives were so intertwined even from the days of our childhood. Trust me, your soulmate do exist. She's somewhere out there - read your bible diligently. He will direct you to the right place at the right time, in the most perfect moment.
2006-09-19 17:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by calofficer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about other people but i would definately love a guy if he pulled the chair out for me, sent me flowers, and who just loves ME. I always find that guys are so insensitive and they don't remember anything that we want them to remember!
Anyways... good luck finding the right girl for you.. Im sure you will be running into the right person at the right moment!
2006-09-18 14:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women are simply afraid to commit, to even very basic things like responding to kindness, believe it or not. But now and then someone will recognize that you are genuine and thank you with sincerity in her tone. Many women are just not in touch with their feelings, or ability to read what others do for them. Sad but true. It is part of that disconnected thing that exists today, worldwide. But equally many people love to have kindnesses shown to them, so I would strongly encourage you not to become bitter, and just keep opening those doors and speaking from your heart and soon someone who really appeals to you will come into your life, and then what will you do - ? Sent with good energies from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old.)
2006-09-18 15:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I have been looking for a gentleman for ages now. He just seems to be hiding. I am a woman looking for someone like you. Your type is all to rare. There are women out there that love that stuff. In fact I hate it when guys don't treat girls with respect. And I hate it when girls don't show guys that love them for being them and not for their muscles or some other "guyish" ability. Good luck on that hunt. I am still on mine. Ah the single life. I have had my fill.
Peace,
Charis
chic(k).20.charis@xoxy.net
2006-09-18 14:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Charis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you are approaching the wrong women. Just try to ask out someone that isn't really your type. You may find out you have a lot in common and who knows you may find that one lucky lady. I think you are gentleman and you truely deserve to be with a lady. She is out there, you're just looking in the wrong places. Good luck to you.
2006-09-18 15:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you sound like the perfect guy. i dont know why other women expect anything else. i would love for a guy to do that stuff for me.keep looking because i'm sure ther are more women out there who feel the same way. how old are you
2006-09-18 14:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by just someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women out there that do appreciate that very much someday you will find the right one for you so hang in there and when you least expect it you will find someone that will appreciate all that you have to offer HUGS
2006-09-18 14:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How have you not found a woman? i look for guys that open doors for me and are just altogether a good gentleman....with a bit of a crazy side. i'm positive you'll find a girl. and if not...i'm right here.
2006-09-18 14:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you teach my boyfriend to do that!
Good luck, man... I'm sure there is a lady out there just waiting for you...
Watch though.. it will be when you're least expecting it!
2006-09-18 14:50:52 · answer #11 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋