I cant fall out of love with my ex. bf I am 18 years old only ever had one bf that i really loved this year he was my first everything and well he got me pregnant and left me twice i lost the baby at 5 months i called to tell him since are contact was non existant. I tried being friends because we are going to the same college but a few weeks ago his gf told me to leave him alone he apologized and then said he never wanted to see me again. then next day text me to call me a dumbass, then asked if i spoke english, then that he missed me and he called my phone?I feel really hurt and alone. I lost the baby in may this year.
2006-09-18 14:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by Elanor p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No one knows that i was ever pregnant except my ex. bf. I am having trouble moving on is this normal?i have another guy intrested in me.
2006-09-18 14:47:24 · update #1
other guy is really sweet and nice plus gentle to me but i cant seem to be attracted to him
2006-09-18 14:56:59 · update #2
It's always hard to get over your first, let alone with your extenuating circumstances. Sorry for the loss of your baby. I know personally how difficult that is. But as far as this guy, he seems to be playing games with you. You don't need that ever, let alone after your traumatic loss. Date someone else. And don't fool yourself...you don't want to be friends with him...you want him back. You won't be able to be friends with him. That would mean supporting him in his new relationship and you can't do that with your feelings for him. You're setting yourself up to hurt longer. Cut all ties. It's hard for the first month or two, but you move on. Good luck.
2006-09-18 14:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your baby. It's normal to find it hard to move on, but you HAVE TO try. Your ex is not kind to you, you deserve someone better. Being just friends with him will only hurt you more because he doesn't care about you anymore + he got a new gf. Even if he calls and say that he misses you, that would only confuse you, so leave him alone. You're young and got a bright future, be brave and start over at college. Don't go near your ex in college. There're lots of other guys there. Focus on your study, make lots of new friends and be happy.
2006-09-18 22:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to move on from the first boyfriend. He doesn't care about you and probably never did. Now he's playing games with you. There is more to life than romance and clearly you need to understand that you need a solid relationship and that will take some personal preparation on your part. If the new guy is nice, date but just be friends. Since you are in college why not take a personal relations class? They had a Marriage and Family Relations class at my college. I took it; it was very interesting.
2006-09-18 23:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better go for the other guy then. Your ex sounds like trouble.
2006-09-18 21:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by mouse3801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some dignity and move on!!!! Sheesh.
2006-09-18 21:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋