OK I had a great first date last Friday with an amazing girl. We have a second date set up for next week on Wed to go to a baseball game. My question is will I seem too eager if I ask her do something this week on like Thursday or Friday?
2006-09-18 14:39:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you would seem too eager. I think she would know that you really like her. If two people really like each other and enjoy each others company there really shouldn't be a set time limit. That's the trouble with most people they play game in stead of keeping it real. If you think she really likes you and enjoys your company, go for it.
2006-09-18 14:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call her up just to B.S. - no specific reason. Somewhere in the conversation you say something like, "I think I may go look at some new (I don't know, sneakers or shirt for work or something) Thursday evening (You haven't earned a Friday night with her yet, so don't try). Would you like to come along, just for something to do?".
If she says yes, DO NOT plan on making it an all nighter. Set the pickup time, go do what you said you wanted to do whether you actually buy anything or not, maybe stop for a milkshake or something, then bring her home (by 8 or 9). This way you get to see her for a few hours, it's not a formal date, and it shows you're interested in her enough to include her in your daily travels because you enjoy HER.
Drop her off, don't expect anything, say you look forward to seeing her next week and if she's bored or something to give you call, and drive away. Between then and let's say Sunday, the next move is hers. The time in between is yours to do whatever you need to do as long as it's not with her - even if your home alone jackin off over her for 15 hours. If nothing comes of it (pardon the pun), so be it, you'll see her Wednesday. If something does, then you know it could go somewhere.
However, is she says something lame like "No thanks, I'm having my armpits waxed that day, stay away until Wedenesday. At any rate, no matter what, just play it all by ear. Don't try to make something happen. If something is supposed to happen it will by itself.
2006-09-18 14:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first date went really well, and you both enjoyed being together, then you should definitely makes plans to be together again.
My advice, for whats its worth, is to stick with the ball game on the Wed, and make the "dates" between now and then, something simple like getting a milkshake or burger together.
That way you are still spending time together, without appearing too eager, and without putting too much pressure on her ( or yourself ) .
Cheers mate, hope it all goes well 4 u
2006-09-18 14:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by TOP DOG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will be way too eager if you set something for Thursday and Friday as well as the Wednesday.
Hold off to the following Thursday.
2006-09-18 14:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-17 06:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not to soon. But if you wait till the date you've already set up next Wed. it will be all the sweeter if you wait. Absence makes the heart grow fonder...I'd wait if I were you. And bring her flowers when you pick her up. She'll love it! A small friendly bouquet nothing fancy like roses...Have fun...and treat her like a lady.
2006-09-18 14:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably yes! but girls love that it makes them feel loved and chances are that they are counting down the days to go on that second date and they would love a get together in between!
2006-09-18 14:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this girl, there's nothing wrong with wanting to go out with her again. of course don't be disappointed if she said she can't go (as long as she's not going out with another guy). but by all means, ask her out on a date again.
2006-09-18 14:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah. i think it is great that u two hit it off well enough that u r comfortable asking her so quickly. i love it when dates go well. ask her!
2006-09-18 14:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Ask her. Have a few cool ideas, one for each day.
2006-09-18 14:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋