I want to be able to let my boyfriend know that he can tell me anything but he is scared that i might get mad or something wat can i do help please im desprite hahah j/p
2006-09-18 14:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time and trust! it is the only way!
Try pulling a couple skeletons out of your own closet, as a quick way to create trust. Also women tend to be a bit of gossip queens when they get with there girl friends. Reassure him that his info is safe and prove it!
2006-09-18 14:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by drakekse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to get him to talk. He will open up after a while probably. Give him his space, let him breathe a little. Otherwise your gonna only chase him away from you. Do you need to know because you think you can help him? Or are you doing it because you could be just a wee bit nosey???
2006-09-18 14:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had and somewhat still have this problem on occasion. Mine lied to me or told me white lies to cover things he didnt want me to know. I finally told him that it stops or he leaves. He tells me more but if I want someone to gab with about feelings and so on I talk to a female. Men in general dont talk about feelings. We as females are feelers. Men feel that if it will cover their butt then lie, if it is not apsolutly assential then they dont talk about it. When it comes to expecting your man to be open about his feelings......you would be better off becomng gay , because its not going to happen. Its not his or your fault, they are just different species.
2006-09-18 15:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's difficult for every man to open up and tell everything, even with those who are close to their hearts.
we men are sensitive but we don't show it often. we don't get mushy easily. so, don't force your boyfriend to open up, this maybe make him stary away from him.
just create an environment for him to be comfortble enough to open up. you can trigger his sensitive self by opening up and share with him your secrets first.
maybe little by little, he'll be comfortable enough and trust you. then he'll open up.
just be patience if you love him.
2006-09-18 15:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make him, when he feels comfortable enough to tell u everything he will, and dont take it personal, he may just be the type of person who doesnt like telln all about themselves
2006-09-18 14:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋