I'm BI and It's really against my religion but I'm soooo in love with my girl friend. We want to get married but I have to finish school first. Her family loves me but my family doesn't know about us what should I do??!!
2006-09-18 14:17:00 · 19 answers · asked by Skylar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel you are old enough to have a relationship with someone then you should be old enough to tell your parents about it. I would sit them down and tell them calmly and honestly. You may want to have some one who already supports you with you when you tell them. I would expect them to be really upset. Be patience and give them time.
2006-09-18 14:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first and keep your family guessing until you get a real job and can pay your own way.
It's sad that you can't tell your parents. Sad for them, too.
No point in rocking the boat right now. Finish school and see how you and your girlfriend are doing then. Make sure that you are truly bi before upsetting the apple cart. You sound like you're at an age where you are still learning about yourself. No need to hurry things along.
Good luck to you
2006-09-18 21:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your parents the best. Are they going to flip out? As far as religion, its against most religions. But you have the power to make yourself happy. If you think your parents are going to flip then i say wait until you move out of their home. They are more likely to respect your decision if you dont live under their roof. Either they will except it, Deny it, or just live with it. But once you dont live with them there isnt much they can do. But dont rush things. This isnt any different than a girl/guy relationship. you may think your relationship will never change but it could and most likely will. So just have fun for now, keep it on the low and when the time is right let the cat out of the bag!!
2006-09-18 21:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by crystalyn129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by school you mean high school..you are way too young to consider marriage...what's the rush? The bi thing will come out in the end....stop stressing and enjoy each other...
2006-09-18 21:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into getting married, and you might not be able to be legally married in your state anyway,You need to tell your parents, whether it be tommorrow or next year.If they are good enough parents, they will accept your decisions and should support you, but that doesn't mean they will, they may never agree or support you at all.You make decisions for yourself, no one else makes them for you.Go with what your heart is telling you.
2006-09-18 21:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out clean. Tell them about your relationship. If you love a person so much then fight for her. IF you're parents are against it, try to persuade them first but if they still dont budge, just think that you've been a good child to them to at least let them know.
2006-09-18 21:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of school do you need to finish? High school or college? Is it possible that you only think you are in love?
2006-09-18 21:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love is against your religion, your religion is wrong. That's really all there is to it. And the girl who said "I'll pray for you" is just a pathetic tool who ought to keep her mouth shut.
2006-09-18 21:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that what you are feeling isin't right? It's Satan's trick to get you away from GOD. Repent before it's not too late and forget about that girl,get a Bible and read it through and throgh.
GOD Bless
2006-09-18 21:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come out and tell your parents the sooner the better, for if you keep hiding it, then it will be harder to handle. But good luck.
2006-09-18 21:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋