Men are not designed to be our girlfriends. They are not our be all end all. We as women must find our own self worth and stop waiting on a guy to give it to you. If he is not giving you enough attention, dump him and get someone who does or who meets those needs you have.. But do not rely on a man to give you your self worth or make him feel like he has to always be up yur *** all the time. Find something to do other than moan and whine about how he is not spending enough time with you.
2006-09-18 13:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by Madonna1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) Hooray!
I can't imagine not being able to just have some TIME TO MYSELF... I love going to the movies alone and just doing my own thing sometimes...
It takes a while to learn this i guess... but yes... you are ABSOLUTELY right...
Enjoy your own company and then someone else might!
2006-09-18 14:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it helps to ask a question here, just to get relationship advice & see other peoples opinions on a situation, or have a b*tch, whether it be able a relationship problem or anything else, sometimes other peoples opinions help you look outside the square. Some people may be being treated a certain way & think it's normal or may think he's an *** whatever, it just helps to share problems, & give answers, that's what answers is all about isn't it, especially the relationship section?
2006-09-18 21:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There either asking too much of their men, or their not getting the attention they want. Not all women have self worth and most younger women need a man to define them.
2006-09-18 21:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because they spend too much time on Yahoo Q&A and not enough time being on the receiving end of that attention. Maybe they're just spolied and want everything to revolve around them. There are so many possibilities!
2006-09-18 21:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband gives me his attention all the time. so I don't complain.
Some girls they're just not making themselves addictive enough for their boyfriends, that's why their boyfriends don't give them attention. Instead of whining and complaining about not getting attention, why not do the opposite and love him and care about him instead, maybe then, they'll get more attention from their boyfriends.
2006-09-18 21:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you totally.
A boyfriend is a part of your life....they're not supposed to be your life.....and if you're trying to make him your life you're going to have problems.
If women would realize that early on they wouldn't have half the problems they do.
2006-09-18 21:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. You're mean! I don't have this lack of attention problem w/my soon to be husband, but some girls are genuine in their complaints, and don't dump them bc they think it's worth fixing. So yeah...ease up bitter betty!!
2006-09-18 21:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they feel they need everything from them and dont have a mind of their own... Thank God I don't do men!!
2006-09-18 21:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Skylar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont ..mine gives me attention n then some so maybe they just want some sympathy is all..they need to spend more time trying to plz their man instead of complainin bout him maybe the problem with their men isnt their men at all maybe its themselves n they just dont want to take the blame
2006-09-18 21:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cause their to busy yaking on the computer.
2006-09-18 21:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋