2006-09-18 13:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by wildone6939 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Cooking & Recipes
there should be no mean way... the support is given to YOUR CHILD!!! not to your ex. Please remember that... tooo many people think its money in the pocket of your ex. its not.... YOUR CHILD has a RIGHT to be supported by BOTH parents not just one. So remember that when your thinking of how to be mean to your ex... your being an A$s to your child.
Grow up and be an adult if only to show your child how a real adult handles difficult situations or stop wondering why they are treating you like the AS$ you have taught them to be
2006-09-18 14:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly understand a Fathers anger when he's taken through the ringer when you go through a divorce. I, coming from a broken home, where my Dad paid nothing, have determined not to do that to my kids (get divorced). If your relationship is good with your kid(s), take them out to eat and talk about the next phase of their life and yours. Just get over the past hurts and build bridges with your kid(s). My dad is now 65 years old and has cancer. He has many regrets, but he can't fix the damage done. I have forgiven him, but we haven't been close because he started an all new family where they are a higher priority than me. They really don't have that close of a relationship with him either, so now he's mostly alone dealing with this. Do you want that??? As far as ex-wife..send home the doggie bag..full of doggie crap...lol
2006-09-18 21:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by channelset33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay it a long time before the child turns 18. That's pretty mean, but father's do it all the time.
2006-09-18 21:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called "Child Support".If you want to do something to piss her off then I would find something else to do....or move on.Sorry but kids are always too much involved in the negative aspect of divorce.
Just kidding.... I do like the penny idea..hehehe
2006-09-18 21:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by *ELiZaH* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be mean when it comes to taking care of your child? that is what child support is for, because trust me if you were a full time parent you would be paying alot more to care for your child. so just make your montly contribution and concentrate on putting up money for their college,wedding,grandchildren, etc...
2006-09-18 23:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by beaut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pennies!!! Lots and Lots of Pennies! I would hand deliver the payment and give him the California wave f*** you. Seeing that I never got squat from my ex when we divorced and I never received any type of child support from him, I don't feel he has the right or privilege of knowing the existence of his grandson!!!
2006-09-18 21:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Susan §@¿@§ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your question related to COOKING and RECIPES in ANY way??????? There are other sites for bitter people like you. You NEED to get on with your life and like SO many other's have said, the support is for your children!!!! GROW UP!!!!!!
2006-09-19 08:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would attach a picture of me and my wife and the rip out my new girlfriend's head and tape it over hers, so the tape is obvious. Then I would attach that to the check.
2006-09-18 20:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mongs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mean about it. There's no sense in it. Its pretty immature to do something like that. Afterall they'd still be my kids and I'd still want to help them as much as I could.
2006-09-18 20:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be mean it's for the child and you wouldn't want to be mean toward the child and that may be how they take it..
2006-09-18 20:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋