I like this guy we are kind of involved, and I love talking to him, I call him like 6 to 7 times a day, is that too much? Do you think it will freak him out?
2006-09-18 13:15:58 · 34 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I call him now?
2006-09-18 13:16:12 · update #1
Hun, i will be honest to you and tell you that men get intimidated quickly and dont like to be called that often, just tone it down a bit and you will be fine. Cheers!
2006-09-18 13:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by buggaboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah most guys dont like talking on the phone all the time, and thats way too much, it never gives him enough time to himself. Give him a day with out you calling him, and see how often he calls you. If none, theres a serious problem, but if he calls you once or twice, you might need to go down to that much. If he calls you 6 or 7 times, then your good to go with what your doing now!
2006-09-18 13:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. STOP.... IT... NOW... He will leave you and he will tell everyone he knows that you are crazy and clingy. There is no need to call him more than once a day or a few times a week.Men hate to feel suffocated. Do not text him, Im him,call him, beep him, get others to do your dirty work, write him notes in class or try to telepathically contact him more than the bare minimum of times.
2006-09-18 13:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow girl that is a lot to call a guy and that might freak him out and make him think that u are a control freak or a stalker or something i mean **** do u really need to talk to dude that much
2006-09-18 13:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Does he try to avoid your calls? Does he make excuses to get off the phone? Sometimes that will chase him away (calling too much can seem kind of overbearing to a male.)
2006-09-18 13:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's way 2 much he'll probaly think that you like him if you keep that up. If your gonna call a boy then call at least once or twice a week not days a week.
2006-09-18 13:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesh yesh yesh.
dont do that.
take it from me.
ive liked this guy and i called him like that.
and
one day i was on the phone with his friend and he told me that his friend thought that i was obsessed.
and
thats why he never liked me.
call him one or two times a day.
and
DO NOT call him every day.
keep him guessing dont let him know he's the only guy you like right now.
so skip a few days from calling him.
and he will notice he likes talking to you and stuff.
and
maybe your relationship with him will go somewhere.
i wish i would have known that before i made him think i was obsessesive.
lol.
good luck!
2006-09-18 13:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god yes thats wayyy too much.Are you trying to scare him away?? Men dont like clingy girls. Give him some space. Or you are going to run him away. Trust me. One time a day is ok if that..but 6 or 7 times a day??? thats a big no no
2006-09-18 13:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a normal guy then I think it would freak him out. Especially if a girl keeps calling all day.It would be cool to have a girl call me, but very freaky if she called that much. I would think she's stalking me.
2006-09-18 13:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by jensen0722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..............definitely. Unless he is calling you that much or asking you to call. Then, I say let him call you. You will scare him off, and think you are desperate if you are calling all the time. Trust me, I want to call someone right now, that told me to call.. but his phone just went to "call ended" I'm scared to even call him back. I don't want to chase him, or make him feel pressured.
2006-09-18 13:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋