my friend told me that my boyfriend was going to break up with me, so i decided to do it before he does first but after i broke up with him i found out she lied. we had real feelings for each other but i guess i cared more about my image than i did about him... now i really regret breaking up with him because i really cared about him and still do, but now he wont take me back because of what i did
What should I do?
2006-09-18 13:13:09 · 20 answers · asked by Katie T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol ur not too bright
2006-09-18 13:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by tylermyhre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have to learn from your mistake and hope that next time around you won't make the same one. But i highly doubt he will want to take you back so soon, maybe in a while when he is no longer mad at you for breaking up with him, but he also might lose his feelings for you while getting over the fact that you left him for such a stupid reason. Thank your friend, and hopefully you will not be calling her your friend after this.
2006-09-18 20:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
damn sorry to tell you but i think you should have talked to him about what your friend had told you about him breaking up with you before making a decision like the one you did i mean you should have just asked him if it was true that he didnt wanna be with you anymore because now even if you tell him it was your friend who made you break up with him he still gonna think that you should have thought about things a little more than just making drastic decisions. i think that you should tell him that you still love him and your very sorry about what you did if you really want him back but if he doesnt accept you back then your just gonna have to move on. good luck!
2006-09-18 20:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Woah! Some friend you have! Explain to him what happened but don't blame it all on your friend. Tell him what you've just asked and tell him something like losing him made you realise just how much you feel for him. But don't give up so easily if he rejects you...the chances are that he is just trying to hurt you for a little bit to get revenge.
2006-09-18 20:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EIther try to win him back or move on. If he knows you will do this so easily once without talkign to him he may think you will do it again. Communication is key. Just be friends with him and see where it goes.
2006-09-18 20:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Need Much Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear if your bf loves you as you said, then he would listen to your explanation and take you back if you sincerely apologize. Tell him you have just realized he meant more to you than your foolish pride. Be honest in your apology. If he refuses to forgive you then you know, his pride means more to him than you. Chin up and move on.
2006-09-18 20:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Milie88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. If it was meant to be he will forgive you as true love is a forgiving love. If he can't forgive you then something is missing any way. Do you want to be with some one who is not understanding and cant forgive??
~good luck~
2006-09-18 20:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
live and learn there girl live and learn if your ego was more important then that is your loss i mean maybe you could wait a while and see what happens with him and find out if maybe after you talk to him and tell him what happened and give him a sincere aplogy maybe he will take you back
2006-09-18 20:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u really expect 4 him 2 take u back
2006-09-18 20:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥KyKy♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your friend is not much of a friend doing you like that...better watch her, she will be after him, that is probably why she did it....your so called friend needs to mind her own business....she is going to stab you in your back
2006-09-18 20:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by cooter_brown872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never listen to any woman or friend about your man Give him time hopefully he will come around.
2006-09-18 20:17:04 · answer #11 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋