My boyfrind keeps telling me his fanatasies and wants to pursue them should I give into everyone of his whims or just let him keep fantasing
2006-09-18 13:10:49 · 33 answers · asked by fa0099 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are comfortable with his fantasy, then it's sometimes OK to give in and explore something new, you might even like it. Also make sure he is willing to explore some of your fantasies. But remember that some fantasies are better left as fantasies. You know your limits, and he should respect those limits if he truly cares about you.
2006-09-18 13:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably find a comprimise. Give in to fantasies that you're willing to try but you shouldnt do anything you're not comfortable with. You should try things out with your bf cause keepings things interesting in your sex life is important to a relationship. If you dont, soon enough, he will find it somewhere else where he can be more adequately satisfied. At the same time, if hes not doing things that you like, you should tell him so you both can get the best enjoyment.
2006-09-18 13:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the first 2 answers...they're just lame. Acting out fantasies should be an enjoyment for BOTH of you...you should want to do it because it sounds like fun, not becasue your bf is pressurising you to. You have to set your ground now otherwise he'll just walk all over you sexually and think he can test out his little fantasies on you. Just do the ones that interest you.
If you don't like any of his, suggest some of yours.
2006-09-18 13:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just stupid to give in, unless you just want to pursue the same fantasies, no, that just shows that the man in the relationship can get away with doing another women even when they are married and get away with it.
2006-09-18 13:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are great and keep things from getting boring, but indulge him only if YOU want to. You're a girlfriend, not something to be used for his ego. If you think his ideas are hot, then go for it. Otherwise, a circus monkey would be a great parting gift for him.
2006-09-18 13:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are willing to do and how far you are willing to go.
I did it all for my boyfriend/husband and now he fantasizes about other women. The things he tells me about ME are dreams of death or other strange dreams.
Personally,now I'd give in to one or two to show him that you are willing to do SOMETHING, but strong enough not to give in to EVERYTHING. Keep his mind on YOU with fantasies unfulfilled.
2006-09-18 13:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why they are call FANTASIES, don't do anything you are not comfortable with just because he wants you to, if you do all he wants now you won't be able to say no later, set your limits and do only those things that appeal to you.
2006-09-18 13:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only the ones you're comfortable with and want to do, too. You're not his sex toy, you're a human being. If he wants to fulfill his fantasies, tell him to go to Vegas. You'll only end up resenting him for seeing you in that light and not for your other qualities.
2006-09-18 13:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course do not give in to your boyfriends fantasies...do what you feel like is ok for you...i would not fulfill all my husbands fantasies if i felt they were wrong or not good for you...many things a person can do is morally wrong too...
2006-09-18 13:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has imagination and it sounds as if you will never have a boring sex life....but make sure that it is something you feel you would enjoy....sex is a partnership...you don't have to give into anything you won't enjoy.
2006-09-18 13:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋