The guy I'm seeing, we've started seeing each other again for about a month, , after being broken up for 1-2 months, after about a year & a 1/2 relationship, & not everyone knows we're seeing each other again, which is his idea...
Would you think it was rude if you were in the same situation, & he asks everyone but you to do certain things.... ie. over one weekend 3 things, 1. asks a few of people to go away for the night to this thing, may have been kinda blokey motorbike racing etc, but there were girls i knew & were friends with there too, it turns out, but he could've asked & could've said nah too blokey if that was the case... 2. asks people past 3 weeks if they wana come 4 a pub meal.... 3. says 2 ppl hey come out to this club on next Friday night... I don't even want to do these things. He could ask people another time, not in front of me? I want someone who cant get enough on me really, is that fair enough? I just wanted to ***** about it a bit i feel better now!
2006-09-18 12:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by idk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NEVER CHANGE
2006-09-18 14:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bet is that when the two of you broke up some of his friends dissed you fairly badly and now he is not wanting to admit to them that you are back together. He's a bit of a dork cause friends do that and when they find out they will probably be happy for him (they just agree with him basically).
2006-09-18 23:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but let him go. He's ashamed of you first of if he has to keep it a secret and he probably is still dating other people. He probably never wanted to hook back up, but he felt sorry for you cause he's not a "man". Real men can be open and honest with women and they treat their ladies with love, respect and compassion. If you're not getting all 3 loose him.
2006-09-18 20:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by #1 auntie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why doesn't he want anyone to know you are together again. Plus making plans with you being there and not consulting you. Sounds like he wants it both ways, you in the wings waiting when its convenient for him. You need to drop him fast and find someone that respects you which it sounds like he doesn't
2006-09-18 20:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by brenna452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really mad, but can't figure out what he did from your question. So I will agree that was VERY rude...I guess!
2006-09-18 20:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him packing-if he makes you feel bad, about ANYTHING, dump him and find a man who wants to do things with YOU. Cheers!
2006-09-18 20:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by who'sthatlady? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, very rude-#10
2006-09-18 20:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants a girlfriend to show off no tone to have. Dump him
2006-09-18 20:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are his booty call. Yes, it's rude unless it's mutual.
2006-09-18 20:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya thats pretty rude
2006-09-18 20:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by shygirl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a headache from reading that.
2006-09-18 20:00:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋