Females do you feel any sympathy for guys who don't get any attention or have a horrible sex life because they're too nice of a guy or a wimpy guy if you want to call it that? Females do you give out sympathy loving to guys like this or is it screw them it's their own fault (survival of the fittest male) mentality when it comes to the too nice guy? Females let me know how you feel on this. This is a question I think no man or woman has ever asked before? I'm the first to ask a question so on the nail when it comes to the way a female feels about a nice/wimpy guy not getting the good sex life or attention from the females. I'm asking this question for all the too nice/wimpy guys in the world. They won't ever ask you because they're scared. So I'm asking you all.
2006-09-18 12:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a girl, but it's been my experience that most women do not have any sympathy for guys who are dateless -- most women seem to assume that you must have done something to deserve being alone (like you do not care enough about relationships to learn what women want or how relationships really work).
2006-09-18 13:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is not that at guy is nice/wimpy, it's about the confidence the guy gives off.
If you think you're not meeting women because you're a wimpy nerd, then that's your problem. Tou need to think of yourself as a person of value and exude the positive aspects of what you can bring to a relationship. If you think you are being used because you're too nice, then you're probably making yourself out as something you're not and becoming a major turn-off to women once they find out what you're "really" like.
Best advice...it's not about the sex...If you want a real, lasting relationship you will show your dedication to someone by NOT sleeping with them. That way, if you do decide to take the relationship further, and in to marriage, there is no greater gift that you can give each other. Staying pure until marriage fosters honesty and integrity. basically, if you sleep with some girl who dumps you the next day, you're not quality material, you're expendable.
2006-09-18 20:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by pknutson_sws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys... We need more of them. There is nothing wrong with a man who knows how to act. I know personally I was once attracted to the thug type and they will screw over you. You have to sit around and wonder who they are being with since they have the macho attitude. I don't care if a guy has no sex life. If he was a virgin it would be great because you don't have any diseases to worry about or the feeling that you are not good enough. Who wants a hoe. Not me. A wimp on the other hand. I would not want. you have to be able to stand up for yourself or your woman and if a fight breaks out I don't want my man to be hiding behind no damn bush like some *****.
2006-09-18 20:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Miss T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with tasha! I married my husband 1 year ago. I wish all women would give shy (wimpy) guys a go and give those self absorbed ******* the flick. My husband only dated a few women before me and i find it unbelievable! hes the most caring, compassionate and loving man Ive ever met. So if there's any single women reading this answer i suggest you take a closer look at your male friends and make a move on the quietest selfless one!
2006-09-18 20:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay I will be brutally honest.
The "nice/wimpy guys" that I have dated have ended up annoying me to the point of madness. They agreed with everything I said, had no opinion of their own, then, when I did something they disagreed with, they sulked and moped rather than talk about it. They had no self confidence, and that makes dating very, very dull.
This probably makes me sound completely unsympathetic and awful, but that is not how I mean to be. I want to date someone with opinions, confidence, ideas, and someone who can express themselves, whether they agree with me or not. Basically, I want an adult and not someone I have to babysit.
If you don't have the nerve to even talk to the girl, then why should she date you? (vice versa for girls with guys) What are you offering? You're not even offering the guts to go up and talk to her. It's not that I don't feel bad, but come on, you have the ability to do something about it if you like someone.
2006-09-18 20:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Miro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some wimpy guys are okay, but they aren't the type to date unless you're looking for a serious commitment. Buff guys are okay too, but not as buff as say, The Rock or Hulk Hogan (wrestlers are the only people that come to mind right now...) but some one kind of in beetween the two(two as in wimps and buffs)are the types I'd date! (just saying)
2006-09-18 20:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by zutara_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've spent my adult life liking the 'bad boys' and well...they've all treated me terribly. I've now found a nice (some might consider him wimpy), laid back, agreeable guy who treats me like a princess. He's even somewhat of the 'nerdy' type. Now that I've matured, the badboys don't seem so appealing anymore. Viva nice guys!!!!
2006-09-18 19:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by curiosity 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
no i don't like them i want someone wh i feel scared of yet trust.. not someone who i know i could beat up or someething it's cute that they're scared but if they ever want to get on with a girl then they need to buck up and get over it
2006-09-18 19:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~serendipity~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I much prefer nice guys over pompous guys like you. Oh gee, you're doing them such a favor aren't you.
Get a life!
2006-09-18 19:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by kuklablue 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
nice guys are the marrying type
2006-09-18 19:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋