My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. Our relationship isn't the best but it's o.k. So last weekend I called him to discuss our problems and he sound down. So i asked him what was wrong. He said nothing. I told him yes it is I know when somethings wrong with. So he said I don't want to cause it will hurt you and it will hurt me........he was like its already hurting me. So i was like just tell me since we talking to each other. He said I found out that I got................And he paused............I said you found out you got what..He said I found out I got a baby on the way............I was so sad I still am. Sometimes I still think about it and cry. And im still with him. Should I break up with him?
2006-09-18 12:51:48 · 16 answers · asked by candacejs2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheated on you! Yes he needs to go. He betrayed your trust in him. Don't feel bad you did nothing wrong.If he cheated on you once he will do it again. He disrespected you. Time heals all wounds. The right guy will find you
2006-09-18 13:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by angry parent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u should
1. he cheated on u
2. he got some else pregnant
but on the other hand aty least he was man enuf to tell u
i think u should two against one is a hell of a battle but i gotta say the first two out way the last one plus u said it the relationship isn't that great
2006-09-18 20:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by ScholarlyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave!!!! I have a friend that is going through this. The baby is now 3 months old and he is seeing both of them. Just get out of this mess. You can do so much better and you do not need this baggage.
2006-09-18 19:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen and its all based on your love is for each other. These times and day everyone has some type of attachment. Ask him what does he want ,it should not make a difference if he wasn't dating both of you at the same time..
2006-09-18 19:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can help you make that kind of decision...you really have to look inside yourself and find out whether or not this is something you can handle dealing with and still being there for him at the same time..he is going to be a father and needs to be there for that child..so question is can you find it in your heart to forgive, because you will never forget...is your love for him strong enough to stand by your man..
2006-09-18 19:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did he do it .. get the story and ask if he felt bad after it and im sure you can tell the differents if hes telling the truth or if hes saying that to make you feel better ... everbody deseves another chance .. as for the baby and that other girl i dont know ....
2006-09-18 19:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine&rainbows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah dont break up wit him he made a mistake give him a second chance i mean you've been with him for 3 years i guess u do find something special in him if u've been wit him with for that long so nah stay wit him
2006-09-18 19:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should leave him. I know it probably hurts but you don't need to be with a cheater. You deserve better.
2006-09-18 19:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by kuklablue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. dirty cheater, what will you do when the baby gets here? constant reminder forever.
2006-09-18 19:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah whatever...are you hot?
2006-09-18 19:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋