My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. Our relationship isn't the best but it's o.k. So last weekend I called him to discuss our problems and he sound down. So i asked him what was wrong. He said nothing. I told him yes it is I know when somethings wrong with. So he said I don't want to cause it will hurt you and it will hurt me........he was like its already hurting me. So i was like just tell me since we talking to each other. He said I found out that I got................And he paused............I said you found out you got what..He said I found out I got a baby on the way............I was so sad I still am. Sometimes I still think about it and cry. And im still with him. Should I break up with him?
2006-09-18 12:51:26 · 18 answers · asked by candacejs2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Candy, if you're a praying woman, get on your knees tonight and thank GOD that it's not you who's carrying this man's (excuse me-BOY's) child.
And then you tell him that you really can't be with him anymore. You end it. Do you understand?
He now has to commit resources and his time and energy into helping to raise a child - that's NOT yours. That means for the next 18 years his income is going to go towards that child, he needs to spend TIME helping to raise that child... And if he doesn't, well that makes him even LESS of a man, doesn't it?
If you want to be with a man right now, you want one that's going to be exclusive.
2006-09-18 12:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should because he sounded like a cheater!
He's that kind of people who used ladies as their toys!
You know even if he said he wouldn't do it again, he'll still cheat on you in the future! It's going to be a very big burden 'cause he'll going be close to that other girl he did it 'cause of the baby. His relationship won't be very close to you!
Break up, move on, and find a better life...
^_^
2006-09-18 19:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Young and Famous 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him. He is going to have to give a large percentage of his income...to this baby and he wouldn't be in this situation if he were trustworthy....a relationship that is just o.k. is not good enough for you...and it is only just ok because he is not dedicated to the relationship. Good luck.
2006-09-18 19:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well then he cheated on you right? well sweetie once someone cheats they break every bond you ever had together, there is no more trust, at all, it's demeaning and humiliating and down right hurts... plus nothing good comes of it, now he has a baby coming, so how could you want to stay, aren't you worth more? You could never believe in him again, and he will do it again, I promise, they always do, cheaters that is....guys or girls..... Good luck sweetie, think more of yourself then that, please?
2006-09-18 19:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow I think staying with a person who has so much respect for you is a great idea! He did not want to hurt you and was willing to protect your feelings about the baby! It must be true love! Are you kidding me? You should be thanking God you got out before he got you pregnant and he was telling his other girl friend he did not want to hurt her. RUN RUN RUN.
2006-09-18 19:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by uthockey32 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You do realize that in order for him to have a baby on the way, he had to have had sex with someone else. He cheated on you. Yes you should break up with him.
2006-09-18 19:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he cheated on you with another woman and is going to be a daddy. you are only dating and he is cheating, I would break up with him. remember he would be tied to this woman for a very long time because of the baby.
2006-09-18 19:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes !!! if its not you who is having the baby on the way then that means he must not be very happy with you. So i would break up with him.
2006-09-18 19:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tough one, your both too young to raise a child, but in your best interest you should move on
2006-09-18 19:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl what are you waiting for. Dump his sorry butt. 3 years??
You can do better!
2006-09-18 19:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Heidimax 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋