the words go bye bye, brain moves faster than mouth.
can anyone help me?
2006-09-18 12:50:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry be happy.
2006-09-18 12:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by joe v 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are a natural person you should try cognitive behavioral therapy. It was the only thing that has helped me with my horrible health anxiety. Read here https://tr.im/ETQ7L
Your thinking determines your quality of life. Your thinking is what causes you these feelings:
Anxious, fearful, stressed or depressed
Constantly worried, or angry about something that is happening in your life
Struggling to overcome obsessive and negative thoughts.
If you change your thinking, you will change your life. This is the basic idea behind CBT for anxiety. The Cognitive part is where you learn nee methods and ways to change your same old habits and thinking patterns. If you keep thinking and expecting the worst – You will continue to suffer.
2016-02-11 09:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u sound adorable... always remember that no one is any better than u we are all the same just wanting love and respect from each other .be confident in your self and if u ask a question and, receive a negative response than that girl wouldnt be worth your time or energy. so stand up proud as the saying goes A closed month wont get feed ... good luck too u.
2006-09-18 12:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by tcorbai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term love-shyness was used by psychologist Brian G. Gilmartin to describe a specific type of severe chronic shyness. In 1979, he received a grant from Auburn University to study the problem. According to his definition, published in Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatments, love-shy people find it difficult to be assertive in informal situations involving potential romantic or sexual partners. For example, a love-shy heterosexual male will have trouble initiating conversations with women because of strong feelings of anxiety. Dr. Gilmartin researched this phenomenon exclusively in heterosexual males.
Gilmartin's book was published in 1987 by University Books, and in 1989, that publisher's subsidiary Madison Books published an abbreviated version with a new foreword by E. Michael Gutman, then president of the Florida Psychological Society, and Chief Psychiatrist for Mental Health Services, Orange County, Florida. After falling out of print, Gilmartin's book did not attract a lot of attention, though usenet posts from the mid-1990s on indicate it was still being read, and Gilmartin notes that "Over the years" he had "received letters and e-mails from all over." His work was translated into Japanese, and in 1995 Gilmartin visited Japan to promote it.
It began finding many new English language readers as a result of excerpts posted on the newsgroup alt.support.shyness in 2001 and an Angelfire webpage, and by the subsequent creation of a Yahoo! Group for further discussion of the book. Further readers can be attributed to the recommendation of the book by popular TV sex guru Sue Johanson in her book Sex, Sex, and More Sex. Additionally, Dr. Judy Kuriansky notes in The Complete Idiot's Guide to Dating that Nobuku Awaya, a Japanese author, created a program of "practice dating" based on Gilmartin's description in his book.
Sources:
Love Shyness
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Love-shyness
See also
Nice guy syndrome
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Nice_guy_syndrome
Why nice guys finish last
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Why_Nice_Guys_Finish_Last
2006-09-18 13:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...well...the girls are just as scared as you are, just to let you know. Try practicing at home alone what you'll say. don't be like me and go completely silent when your crush passes by, fake confidence til you get it, be an actor. I may be a girl, but this ought to help.
2006-09-18 12:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by horsecrazyinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre nervous and its normal. try taking a few deep breaths before you approach her. and force yourself to calm down and talk. if you are really nervous, ask her out when you are in a situation when you have to leave. but make sure you get her number
2006-09-18 12:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just r-e-l-a-x...personally i think it's cute when i guy is nervous...but if you really wanna be smooth and stuff...just...act like yourself dont rehearse what you'll say to a girl you like cuz then everything literally comes crashing down.lol.it's ok =D i'tll be alright
2006-09-18 12:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say anything and don't worry about accountability. That's how they talk to you.
2006-09-18 12:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, are you a nerd? just kidding! maybe you shouldn't be so nervous, I'm sure one day your nerves will go away
2006-09-18 12:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just calm down
2006-09-18 12:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can you talk to girls you don't like...?
2006-09-18 12:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋