So I'm about to loose my virginity in a few months (marriage)...anyway, I need some insightful tips...(I've never even seen the reproductive organ of a man before) I know it hurts...but how much amd what do I do so he can have that pleasure etc. I'm a bit scared...any pointers for me thanks...
2006-09-18 12:49:22 · 22 answers · asked by "Chanel-o" 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey well im glad to know that you are losing it to the one you love. but uh... just make sure he goes slow. and if it hurts too bad dont be ashamed to tell him to stop. the intensity of the pain is determined by the size. and if your worried about what it might look like dont worry it wont be one of the best things you'll see in your lifetime. promise.
good luck!
2006-09-18 12:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is take it slow! It's going to feel good to him no matter what so focus on getting through the first time in a slow but pleasing way. After you guys have done "it" a few times it will start to feel better and better with each time. I was in your place once trust me it'll be fine hahaha. Oh and good job on holding out till marrige!!!
2006-09-18 19:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by dabster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of my business, but I think you should seriously reconsider. I believe men are untrustworthy to a great degree. I am sure their reproductive organs are grotesque. And the pain you would endure would be excruciating. I agree with you about being anxious and encourage you to consider a celibate lifestyle.
2006-09-18 19:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to turn your fear into excitement, because it's the start of a whole new and exciting part of your life! Lubricant is great, and just feel things ou-the physical will follow. Follow your heart and your intuition, and best wishes!!
2006-09-18 19:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by who'sthatlady? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress over it. It really isnt painfull at all, all you really feel is pressure. As long as your husband to be knows and takes things slow- everything will be great.
2006-09-18 19:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by lindsayclaireanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure your ready, cause the v card isnt something you can get back, and thats a hole that just gets deeper and deeper and wider and wider, so make sure its the right person.
2006-09-18 19:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can tell u is to relax and enjoy it rather than being too uptight about it.
the more relaxed u are, the less painful it will be!
2006-09-18 19:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEET good luck dude make sure to have fun and dont get carred away.
2006-09-18 19:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by aaronwinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First rent porn or penthouse letters, and they will tell you techniques . Then enjoy yourself and live for the moment (it doesn't hurt if you are ready for it)
2006-09-18 19:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are not the only gal virgin around here, so I don't have any tips for you, just good luck!
2006-09-18 19:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋