I really don't want to hurt him, but he's from Brazil and he keeps texting me and leaving messages. I liked him, but I really like another more and have no wishes to really see him again. So what's a nice way to say goodbye?
2006-09-18 12:48:54 · 23 answers · asked by slyshewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time you talk to him,tell him the truth and how you feel.The truth shall set you free.In a situation like that,it will feel so much better by only being honest to him.Ratter or not it hurts his feelings he deserves to know the truth,,just like you deserve to know the truth,and it will be a load off of your chest by being honest with him."You can respect a person so much better when they are being honest with you." Honesty is the Best Policy,it will take you a long way. So good luck and GOD BLESS.
2006-09-18 15:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.pierre3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this: "Hey X, i think we have to talk. I just think that this relationship isn't going anywhere because you're to far from me. I want to move on from this and i really hate doung this to you. I really wish we can still be good friends. I'm really sorry for the hurt i've caused you, it hurts me to, but this is the truth, and the truth usually sucks."
That's the best i've got.
2006-09-18 20:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know what you had, let him know of the good times, let him know that it is time to part but it would be nice to have a friendship, someone you can always talk to. tell him you need to concentrate on other important things like school let him know you will keep in touch but right now it is not a good thing for you, let him know you need time and pressure will not help the situation. so give him the alternative, friends or nothing
2006-09-18 19:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by zermenoj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you both have grown apart since then. And now you are ready to move on. The affection you had for him has changed.
2006-09-18 19:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a really nice guy, but can only offer you friendship might do trick.
2006-09-18 19:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just say it straight out and then cut of any contact cold turkey.
2006-09-18 19:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by tarro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and he will get the message.
2006-09-18 19:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you only want to be friends with him and get a restraining orders.
2006-09-18 19:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front and tell him THATS IT'S, if he still won't take no for an answer tell him you will contact the police
2006-09-18 19:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nadine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets be friends or tell him the distance is to far for me ..and i want to see others and so should you
2006-09-18 19:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋