well i am going out with this guy and I kissed another guy and i don't no why i just can't help it i really like both of them ALOT and i don't want to hurt them
2006-09-18 12:37:30 · 19 answers · asked by gus13 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
ok the guy i kissed Knows i have a bf and it's not like me and him had sex
2006-09-18 12:45:32 · update #1
It seems like you want it to be okay that you kissed another guy. I don't know how old you are, and I don't know if you have ever slept with anyone before, but this is how you get in trouble with multiple sex partners and have babies and don't know who their daddies are.
You may be young and just experiencing love for the first time, but your behavior is going to confuse the hell out of you and it is going to hurt both of the guys you kissed. But, just focus on yourself now, cuz you have the power to change things around and make things right. You asked for help on this subject, I say don't kiss the second guy again, if you really want to be with the first. If you cannot make up your mind, then you may not have enough love for either of them to be able to choose.
Be careful. Relationships are not all about kissing and sex. They are about trust, love, and being able to be there for each other. How can you be there for your man when you are with another? You can't. So, be respectful and choose one. And be faithful. I hope I have helped you. I do care. I know I may sound harsh, but sometimes we bring more pain to our lives than we need to by making the wrong choices in life.
2006-09-18 13:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by rach_cast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have your cake and eat it as well you must choose one or the other yes it is wrong even tho it was just a kiss it may seem like a small thing but you have cheated on your boyfriend now. If it was easy for you to kiss the other guy then I think you will later on go on and go further as well. you might think to your self no I wont but you really could
2006-09-18 12:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, if you like both of them then kiss them both. Whoever you get that feeling from stick with him though having tweo bf's at once will end in tragedy and you wont get either one probably. The second one you kissed must mean more to you if you kissed him when you already had someone.
2006-09-18 12:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya, it is wrong. Either break it off with the guy you're dating, or stop kissing other guys. You're being very immature, and totally inconsiderate of other people's feelings! Imagine how you would feel if you saw your "boyfriend" kissing some other chick. It probably wouldn't feel too great, would it?
2006-09-18 12:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is so very wrong for you to have been kissing another guy, you could very well end up hurting both of them specially if they find out about you doing that.
2006-09-18 12:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you're going out with kissed another girl and told you, "I just couldn't help it... I like her, too...," how would you feel...? Wronged...?
2006-09-18 12:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you like the other guy you kissed yeah its a problem but if its for fun then no problem unless the other person finds out. I suggest going with your heart.
2006-09-18 12:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's not a serious relationship don't worry about it, just be honest. For example, "it was fun hanging out but this isn't working for me". But if you are serious with this guy, still be honest and be sure about the decision you want to make.
2006-09-18 12:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how would you feel if you caught your current guy kissing another woman? you arent ready to be with just one guy, i am married and if i saw my hubby or if he told me he was kissing another woman it would be curtains for him we dont believe there are excuses for cheating or having any type of sexual contact with another person
2006-09-18 12:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You violated the first guy's trust, so pretty much that relationship is over, unless he has no spine or self-respect.
Be faithful when you're with someone.
If you don't want to be with them, then end that relationship first.
2006-09-18 12:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋